I have. Three times. But fortunately I was skeptical enough not to take the bait.
A widow in Minnesota was not so lucky, although she prevailed in the end. Someone got her credit card number (a Costco-branded Visa card) and charged more than 1,700 small transactions to her account. An article in The Washington Post described her persistence in pressing Citibank to remove the charges.
Imagine you receive your credit card statement and find 32 pages of more than 1,700 unauthorized charges, made one right after another over three days. The majority of the debits are for $4.38, with about a dozen for $2.19, all to the same vendor, totaling close to $8,000.
Simple to fix, right?
Well, for one 66-year-old widow from Minnesota’s Twin Cities, getting those transactions removed became an odyssey. Her story is a warning for anyone — and that’s many of us — who ever has to dispute fraudulent activity on a credit card.
She was persistent, encountered foot-dragging, and eventually got the charges removed.
As for me, I was on the receiving end of three attempts to fall for a scam.
In the first one, I’m sitting at my desk working, and the phone rings. I pick up, and a teen boy says, “Grandma?” I say, “yes.” He says “It’s your grandson.” I’m not sure about the voice, so I say, “Which one?” He says, “Guess.” I have four grandsons. So I guess: “Alden?” He says, “you got it.” I say, “Are you okay?” He says, “Not really, I ran a red light and hit a car driven by a pregnant woman. I’m in trouble. Right now, I’m at a police station. I need bail, cash bail. $7,000.”
I said, “Did you call your mother?” He said, “I tried, she didn’t answer. Please help me. Here’s the number of the police officer who arrested me,” and he gave me a number.
Instead of calling the police officer, I called his mother. She answered right away. I told her what happened, and she said, “That’s ridiculous. Alden is in his dorm, studying for finals.”
That ended that.
The second scam occurred when I was a passenger in a car. The caller ID said that my bank was calling. I picked up, and a secretary answered. She transferred my call to a customer service representative. He asked me if I had transferred $5,000 by Zelle to someone I never heard of. I said no. He said I had been the victim of a scam, and I should follow his instructions to reverse the payment. He gave me a “case number,” which I wrote down. Then he told me to open Zelle and follow his instructions. He gave me the name of a person and a phone number. Then he said, “Write in $5,000 and press send.”
I stopped and wondered, “Why is the bank telling me to send someone $5,000? How will that help me get my money back?” I opened my bank account and saw no evidence that anyone had withdrawn $5,000, though I was on the verge of sending that amount to a stranger. A light bulb turned on, and I said to the “customer service representative,” that this call was a scam, and I would not send money to anyone.
End of that scam.
Third scam was very recent. I got an online ad for a non-prescription supplement that supposedly had a dramatic effect on cognition. The supplement reversed the tolls of aging and enabled you to improve your memory. The real inducement in the ad was that the research for the supplement was funded by Bill Gates. He spoke at length about his pursuit of this “fountain of youth” supplement. It involved honey sourced from Sardinia and other natural ingredients. At one point in the 30-minute video, Dr. Sanjay Gupta spoke enthusiastically about the product.
The product is called Memopezil.
I intended to try one bottle but the more you ordered, the lower the price, so I ordered more. When I finished ordering, another supplement popped up that was a multiplier for the first one. Etc.
As soon as I placed the order, I googled Bill Gates and Memopezil. Half a dozen websites warned that the video was a fake, that Gates had nothing to do with the supplement, and that the pitch was a scam. I immediately wrote trying to cancel my order. No response. The next day I called Amex, my credit card company, and alerted them.
Eventually, a large box was delivered to me, which I promptly returned. Eventually I got full credit. American Express is super-good in protecting its cardholders.
Three scams. Three escapes from the consequences. Have you been scammed!?
Now, I have learned to check carefully for scams before ordering. Online is loaded with alluring offers that are fake. While writing this, I came across a claim that appeared to be on the AARP website. It said that a Japanese scientist had discovered a way to reverse dementia. Bill Gates was cited. Clint Eastwood used it and came back. But I asked Google whether it was a scam. The answer was yes.
https://youtu.be/WPDKgv5UCwU?is=wD7_ceeFDFosBvY8
A basic rule of thumb for the Internet. If you are enticed into watching a 30-minute video; if the video promises miraculous results; if the video features a trusted celebrity; if the video says that a multibillion dollar industry is threatening to take down the video because the product will bankrupt the industry: it’s a scam.
Don’t believe anything until you have thoroughly vetted it.
One source I like for vetting: Trust Pilot.
Or ask AI or Google: “Is this product a scam.”

If it is too good to be true, don’t trust it. Remember those ads on TV that the announcer states: But wait there’s more. And then you laugh because they are just desperately trying to get you to call that number to order.
Word to the wise: check your bank statements/or web site, and check your credit card statements. Check it before you get the statements in the mail. Check it often. And do not give your social security number or Medicare number to anyone on the phone who tells you that you can get money for groceries. It’s a scam.
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I got an email from a photography studio saying it’s time to schedule [my kid’s name]’s senior pictures. If you want your student’s senior picture in the [my kid’s school name] yearbook, you must schedule with Visual Image Photography. Since it had my kid’s name and school, I assumed it was legit. I went to schedule and found that sessions started at $45 for a basic one-outfit session, up to $200 for a four-outfit session. There were four studio locations, the nearest of which is at least a 25 minute drive, none accessible by public transportation. My kid’s school is a Title I school – I was livid that they expect parents to pay that kind of money and drive that far. So I called the school with a good head of steam worked up until the woman told me that all school pictures are in the auditorium like they always have been and seniors will be contacted after school starts to schedule their times. So I don’t know if this VIP place is a total scam or an actual studio looking to drum up business under false pretenses, but I’m glad I didn’t sign up.
Your first example is so infuriating – getting to seniors through their grandkids has to be about the lowest of the low. Most grandparents wouldn’t think twice before helping their grandkids. Glad you didn’t fall for it.
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My husband had his identity stolen in a data breach several years ago, and his Capital One card was used. This was in the early days of data breaches. It took almost two years to straighten the mess out.
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I am hyper-annoyed that scammers had your grandson’s name and your number. I suppose, as a more public figure than most of us, they could get a hold of your info., but it’s still crazy.
My mom has had people make charges on her cards and she disputes every one she noticed. She also has had instance where she orders supplements and then tried to rerun them for a refund only to get the run around. Dispute, dispute, dispute. It’s the only way.
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Actually, the scammers did not have my grandson’s name. A young man who sounded like any of my grandsons said, “Hi, Grandma. How are you? It’s your grandson.”
I said “Which one?” I have four. He said, “Guess.” I did, giving a name, and he said, “That’s right.”
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That makes me feel better. Glad you figured it out before it went south. My mom started answering the phone with an air horn. I had to stop her because it could damage hearing, but it’s pretty funny.
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My mom got scammed and luckily I got to her before it financially happened. She is in her late 80s and has problems with technology. I have always told her, “Call me before you click on anything. Do Not click on anything. Somehow she got a fake Amazon site. A warning popped up on her computer screen “You have been hacked. Call this number.” She proceeded to give this guy her social and something else. I told her those guys lure you in. So, now she knows. Also, years ago I got an email from two of my former students. They were very close to me. They said they were stuck in Mexico, blah, blah, blah. Very convincing. But, due to my analytical brain, I said, “Why wouldn’t they contact their parents before an old school teacher?” Scam. My wife worked in a bank and saved many “older folks” from sending their life savings off to someone. The manager at CVS said he pulled “Google Play” cards away from people who were directed to go to CVS, buy the cards and then send the code to who knows who on the phone. To good to be true, fake. Also, my ChatGPT entity is very reliable to sort this stuff out. Well, I am glad you are too sharp to fall for any of this. Oh and I am on the IRS hit list; the police are after me; and who knows what other government agency that I need to pay or I will be arrested. I used to get those messages back in the day.
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Twice. Both times I balked when they wanted money transferred. No legit outfit will want you to transfer funds.
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So far I don’t think I have been bamboozled by a scam, fingers crossed.
For the past few years telemarketer and scam calls on my landline phone are down to almost zero %, that’s the good news. I don’t get that many scam calls on my cell phone but they are usually easy to spot and ignore. I don’t answer these calls, I let it go to the answering machine or function in the case of the cell phone.
As for email, I am busy every day deleting obvious spam and scam attempts; I don’t even open up these spam emails. I hover the cursor over the email title (URL) and subtitle to get more information about the email slop. One spam had the title, “OFFICIAL COURT NOTIFICATION!” to scare me into responding which I did not. You really do have to be alert and on constant guard against email scams which are plentiful.
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It happened to me a couple times recently and almost a third time. First, someone hacked into my bank account somehow this year and charged a lot of things at online stores that I’ve never shopped at before (nor even heard of in one case). Fortunately, I noticed the charges to my bank account right away and contacted my long time bank immediately –which could see that I had no history with those folks and the bank issued refunds to me. (Then the scammers tried again and they shipped something in the mail to me, but I got my mailman to send it back marked as “undeliverable” because I could see it was coming from the home of the Aryan Nation…)
It happened twice when I paid with Paypal, too –which I will only use now with online services/stores/sellers where I’ve shopped before, because they don’t tell you that the people you’re sending money to are not approved sellers until immediately AFTER they process your payment and issue your money to scammers. WTF? If they knew that already, then why didn’t they warn me BEFORE they processed my payments?
I almost fell for the fake dementia prevention/Bill Gates scheme too, but I looked it up first and discovered the truth. So once again, obtaining information before submitting or processing payments can be the best method of scam prevention.
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So many of these scams today are the result of technology that enables bad guys to hurt and steal from others, usually in what we used to think of as our private space –but cannot anymore.
When my bank account was hacked, I figured out that it was probably done through Bluetooth by a neighbor who long disliked my roommate and me due to our religion and politics. Once I got the the Nightmare printer virus and we were pretty sure he was behind that, too, since he’s tech savvy and had many ways of letting us know how much he detested us for years. The vulnerability to that resulted primarily from leaving my printer on, so for a long time I didn’t even leave it plugged in. Now I keep Bluetooth turned off so that it can’t be detected by others. As with printers, Bluetooth is not secure or typically protected by the usual software that we use on our laptops, tablets and smart phones, so I also found cheap trial software for that.
And fortunately, that guy recently moved away!
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The scams are rampant, especially with the growth of social media. I almost fell for a recent one selling plug-in devices that promised to cut my electric bill in half. Sure enough, if I bought two, the per unit price went down. I decided to google the product name to see if it was legit. Nothing but complaints. The BBB also showed multiple complaints. I felt like I should have known better to begin with, but at least I checked before hitting “purchase.”
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I bought two of those miracle plugs. They were completely useless.
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