CNN reports that telephone scams now use artificial intelligence to recreate the voice of a loved one who is in desperate trouble and needs help or ransom money right away. In this example, a mother gets a call from what sounds like her daughter, who has been kidnapped, and the gruff voice of a man demanding $1 million to ransom her. It’s a scam, but sometimes it works. If you get a call like this, don’t fall for it. Call your child, call the police, record the call.
The Boston Globe reported on a scam that has become commonplace. An elderly person gets a call from someone with a youthful voice who says, “Grandma, I’m in trouble. I rented a car and ran a red light. I crashed into a car driven by a pregnant woman. I’m in jail, and I need money to make bail. Please help me.”
This happened to a 93-year-old woman in Massachusetts. She rushed to the bank, withdrew $9,500, spoke to a smooth-talking man who claimed to be a lawyer, and handed the money over to a LYFT driver.
I mention this because I received the same scam call. A young man called, claiming to be my grandson. He was in a car accident, he said. It was his fault. He needed money right away for bail. He gave me the badge number and telephone number of the arresting officer. I asked if he had called his mother. He said he couldn’t reach her. I hung up, called his mother, and she said the grandson in question was in his dorm, preparing for finals. I didn’t fall for the scam.
But this grandmother did.
Last month, a 93-year-old grandmother from Pembroke took a call from someone she thought was her granddaughter Abby. Through sobs, Abby begged for money to get out of jail.
Yes, it was a scam, and the grandmother ― who asked that her name not be used for fear of being targeted by other scammers ― fell for it.
The scammers used a somewhat elaborate ruse that included having “Abby’s lawyer” come on the phone to matter-of-factly explain the necessary steps to secure her release.
It was a cruel and wicked exploitation of a grandmother’s love and concern, perpetrated by slick con artists who have no decency.
But the grandmother and her family said they were also upset that Bank of America, from which she hurriedly withdrew $9,500 in cash, did nothing to stop her from throwing away thousands of dollars.
The family also wondered about Lyft, the ridesharing giant, which picked up the cash and delivered it to the scammers, apparently unwittingly.
The family contacted me to call attention to the roles played by two of the country’s biggest corporations and to warn other elders and their families to be on guard, they said.
When the grandmother answered the phone in her home on the morning of Feb. 25 she was stunned to hear a hysterical “Abby” pleading for help.
Here’s what happened:
“Grandma, you got to help,” the voice said. It sounded like Abby, who is in her early 20s. She grew up nearby and spent plenty of time with her grandmother.
She told “Grandma” she was accused of texting while driving and causing an accident in which the pregnant driver of the other car was hurt and taken to the hospital. “Abby” insisted it wasn’t her fault and told “Grandma” she broke her nose in the accident.
“Abby” swore her grandmother and grandfather (he’s 96) to secrecy before putting someone purporting to be her lawyer on the phone. He told her, among other things, that the money was “fully refundable.”
The grandmother hurried off alone to a Bank of America branch office in nearby Marshfield, where she regularly does her banking, feeling anxious and afraid.
At the teller’s window, she showed her driver’s license and presented a check made out to cash. Very few words were exchanged before the teller put a small stack of bills into a white envelope and slid it to the grandmother.
The grandmother was so preoccupied with her mission that she left the bank without counting the money or even looking in the envelope, she said.
Back home, she called the telephone number the phony lawyer had given her. He instructed her to find a small box into which to put the envelope.
The “lawyer” told the grandmother someone would come to her house to pick up the box and gave her the license plate number, make, and model of the car.
A few minutes later, the “lawyer,” still speaking in a reassuring voice on the phone, told her to bring the package to the driver. The driver said little before driving away with it.
About 30 minutes later, the “lawyer” called again and told the grandmother he had bad news: The pregnant woman’s baby had died and Abby was now charged with manslaughter. He needed $9,000 more to get her released.
That’s when she told her son, who happened to be visiting, what was happening. He spoke with the “lawyer,” whom he described as sounding “unbelievably calm and professional.” The “lawyer” told the son the name of the jail where Abby was supposedly being held.
The son hung up and called his niece. She answered. The jig was up.
The son called back the “lawyer.” The call went dead. (I called the same number several times but kept getting a fast busy signal.) The son gave the police the license plate number given to the grandmother. Police said the pickup was made by a Lyft driver.
The reporter for the Globe, Sean P. Murphy, was able to persuade Bank of America to refund the woman’s payout. The scammer got away with it.

Well done with the scam caller. Scary stuff. And even scarier to consider that this stuff will only get more sophisticated.
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It pays to be skeptical grandmother that is a critical thinker when there are technically advanced scammers trying to ‘LYFT’ their life savings.
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A money scam happened to my MIL who speak broken English. The person who contacted her claimed to need over $20,000.
She is a former employee of the darn bank from where she withdrew the money. Thankfully, she got it all back.
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LG, She was lucky!
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Good morning Diane and everyone,
It helps to have a secret password and /or security question that only members of the family know. If the person on the other end can’t give the password, it’s likely a scam.
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great advice
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We had the same idea in our family and of course nobody now can remember the password.
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Ha! I have that problem about passwords. Although they are supposedly on Google, I am constantly forgetting them and creating new ones. I’ve signed up for password saving sites but never have time to fill them in.
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lol
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Mamie, good idea!
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I keep a physical notebook with all my passwords in it.
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Make the password something the whole family knows and loves Example: “Joe’s golf pants” or Aunt Betty’s apple fritters.” 😊😊😊
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My mother was scammed by someone pretending to be “tech support” for her computer, offering to get rid of the virus that had caused her screen to lock up. She paid them to unlock her computer, but then they wanted more. She contacted my brother, who was able to restore her computer for her. Now, she has become ultra-vigilant on both her computer and her phone, as we all must be. She even texts me from time to time (I wrote a textbook called Introduction to Computers and Technology, lol) to give me tips about avoiding the scammers. This tickles me pink. BTW, my mother never uses Trump’s names in her text messages, just a pile of poo emoji, which is altogether appropriate, ofc.
I am on Facebook and Instagram (though I never post to the latter), and I get an endless stream of friend requests from women whose pages are full of fake photos pulled randomly from the Internet and pin-ups of the women, in some trite male fantasy role (sexy cheerleader, bathing beauty, farmer’s daughter, Eastern European call girl, and the ever-popular sexy teacher). Another common Facebook scam; message links with attached malware.
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Zuck should change the name of his program to Facelesshackerbook.
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I have received, a couple times, a scam that claims to be from someone who has hijacked the camera on my computer and recorded me flagellating the bishop, which is amusing to me because I don’t have a dedicated camera for my desktop computer, only one that has to be attached to transfer pictures. I did some research, and this is a very common scam–up there with the ex-Nigerian first lady who needs your help transferring billions of dollars offshore (10 percent of 125 billion for your services!). At any rate, the scammer, each time, demanded some ludicrous amount of money via PayPal in exchange for not sending video of this supposed behavior to my entire contact list.
What happens, ofc, is that some hacker in Scamistan buys an email list on the Dark Web, sends the scam blackmail notice to 5 million people, and a few thousand of them hit. Really sad.
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Sean P. Murphy
Gee, wonder what his ancestry was.
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Why are these scammers neglecting me like this?
Do we have to be wealthy to have one of these AI scammers calls us and demand a million for the life of someone we (might) love?
I want one of those scammers to call me.
My reply, “O-k-a-y. Still, you do know that I have your entire family and all of your best friends you haven’t seen for awhile in my dungeon with millions of cockroaches and rats crawling all over them. Do you want to hear their screams? You can have your family and friends back, if you return my love one + a hundred thousand in cash, all old, one dollar bills.”
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In the old days of telephone scams, my standard line was this:
ME: Hello?
SCAMMER: Is this Mr. Shepherd? I’m calling to let you know that you have one our grand prize of a brand-new automobile of your choice!
ME: Oh, my. Thank you for calling. It is so, so wonderful to hear a human voice after all these years. [whispering] But don’t talk too loudly. They might hear you. And then the bad thing will happen.
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cx: have won
ofc
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Yep. Happened to my husband twice. First time about six years ago… Grandpa, I need your help.
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!!!! I had no idea that this scam had been around for that long!
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And sadly, it seems like you have to go to the media for the banks to give you your money back…
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These creeps prey upon people with dementia and other cognitive issues. It’s really sad.
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