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When I see something I really enjoy, I like to share with you.

Number one is Mariska Hargitay’s brilliant documentary “My Mom Jayne.” Her mother was the Hollywood icon Jayne Mansfield. She died in a horrible automobile crash when she was only 34. Mariska and two of her siblings were asleep in the back seat of the car and escaped with minor injuries. Mariska was only 3 at the time of the accident. She has no memories of her mother.

Mariska, the star of the great series “Law and Order: Special Victims Unit,” wanted to learn about her mother. She was unhappy about her portrayal as a “dumb bimbo” with platinum blonde hairs and big boobs.

In her archival research through family storage units, she unearthed a very different Jayne, one who played classical music on the violin and on the piano. The men who ran the studio system wanted another Marilyn Monroe, and she was stuck in her stereotype.

Mariska interviews her siblings and her mother’s press agent. She discovers that the man she thought was her father–Mickey Hargitay, Mr. Universe–was not her biological father.

It’s a beautifully made movie about honesty and integrity and confronting the past. And I love Mariska Hargitay for modeling empathy, kindness, love, and the courage to open up her past.

Another movie that I enjoyed is “Queen of the Ring.” It’s the story of the life of a pioneering woman wrestler, Mildred Burke. At the time she started wrestling, most states didn’t allow women to wrestle. Her promoter had her wrestle men at carnivals; she won almost every match. It’s a fascinating story, and what I liked best was that the actress who played Mildred Burke–Emily Bett Rickards– did all her own wrestling. That was impressive! It’s not as powerful as Mariska’s documentary, but worth seeing.

I also recommend the streaming TV series “The Righteous Gemstones.” The first season is hilarious. It’s a portrayal of an evangelical family that has created a huge, profitable church that presents spectacles every Sunday. Their private lives are something else. Their language and behavior are vile. I saw all four seasons but liked the first one best.

I’m a wee bit embarrassed to admit that I never saw a “Mission Impossible” movie until afew weeks ago. Now I have seen the first three. I’m enjoying them, especially Tom Cruise’s daredevil stunts. I hope to see them all.

Bill Moyers died yesterday at the age of 91. He was a remarkable man, who served as President Lyndon B. Johnson’s closest advisor and his press secretary, until he quit in 1966. He was a highly accomplished journalist and television star, who dealt with the most controversial issues of the day.

I was privileged to appear on his program.

The full interview is here.

He was one of the great men of the past half-century: Truly moral, ethical, deeply committed to a just world.

I spent this past weekend at my sixty-fifth reunion at Wellesley College. Since I graduated in 1960, I have never missed one. Part of my faithfulness is grounded in nostalgia, in a chance to relive a wonderful part of my life. The four years at Wellesley were transformative, and today my closest friends are classmates.

The high point of the weekend is the parade of alumnae on the last day. The youngest cohort goes first, marching about 3/4 of a mile from one end of the campus to the center, called Alumnae Hall. As each group reaches its destination, it stops and lines the road. Then along comes the next group of graduates, five years older. Eventually the road is lined with alumnae from different cohorts, with the oldest ones marching last. That was my group, about 50 women in their mid-80s. The group behind us was the class of 1955, mostly 92 years old, riding in antique Fords, Model A.

1931 Model A Ford
1931 Model A Ford
1931 Model A Ford
1931 Model A Ford

Since we were the last grads standing, we marched past all the younger groups, and they cheered us vigorously, while we applauded them.

What was striking was to see the demographic changes over time. Our class was all white, though we did have a few Asian students. We did have one Puerto Rican in our class; her father was the governor of the island.

The classes of 1965 and 1970 had a few nonwhite faces.

Starting with the graduates of 1975, the numbers of African American, Hispanic, and Asian students noticeably increased. Every class from that point was markedly diverse.

I have to say it filled me with pride to see how my Alma Mater had changed.

An example: when I arrived at our lodgings, there were students to help us settle in. A beautiful and vibrant young woman brought my luggage to the room. I asked her where she was from. “Rwanda,” she said. “Do you like Wellesley?” She replied, “I love it!” She is majoring in biochemistry and plans to be a medical doctor and to return to Rwanda. Again, I was proud of how my college was changing the world for the better.

But there is another personal note that I wanted to share with you.

In late February, I went for my annual mammogram. The test spotted an anomaly. Several mammograms and a sonogram later, the doctor told me I had breast cancer. In April, I had surgery and the cancer was removed. But the surgeon reported that she didn’t get it all, so I had a second surgery. The pathologist decided that it was all out. None of it was painful.

But that’s not the end of the story. I start radiation on June 2, which will be five treatments in five days. Then a daily pill, all for the purpose of ensuring that the cancer doesn’t return.

I am not worried or frightened. I’m taking it all a day at a time, knowing that my case was caught early and that I have excellent doctors.

Frankly, I am truly worried about my beloved dog Mitzi. She was diagnosed with cancer in 2023, we took her to an oncologist, he put her on a drug that worked, and in June 2024, he declared her cancer-free. But a few weeks ago, we noticed that something bad was happening to her skull. The oncologist said she apparently has a trigeminal nerve sheath tumor. Her head, on the right side, is noticeably recessed. That is, it’s caved in above her eye.

I am much more worried about Mitzi than about myself. I will be fine. She won’t be. There is no treatment for her medical problem. So we intend to love her, spoil her, make every day a good day for her.

I love this sweet dog
When Mitzi met Martha Stewart in Greenport. Mitzi was unimpressed.
A beauty

Starting today, with the sole exception of the 9 a.m. post about censorship, there will be no more posts on Saturday or Sunday. I meant to write and say, NONE! But I could not resist the story about cartoonist Art Spiegelman.

If there is breaking news, I will post it.

Otherwise, enjoy your weekend.

It won’t actually be available until October 10, but it’s now ready for pre-ordering on Amazon, possibly other sites as well, including your local bookstore. Support independent bookstores!

It is my memoirs, the story of my life. Growing up in Houston as third of eight children. College. Marriage. Career. Developing my views and values. Discovering that many of my convictions were wrong. Saying so. Intimate details of my personal life.

Stuff like that.

The publisher is Columbia University Press.

Published by Columbia University Press..

I wish everyone who reads this blog a happy, healthy New Year.

May 2025 be a year in which we feel strong resolve to stand up for our democracy, our values, our families, our communities, ourselves.

Don’t let anyone push you around.

Stand up for what is right.

Be kind to others, especially strangers.

Seek common ground to solve common problems.

Take long walks.

Hug those you love.

Read books.

Visit a museum.

Take care of yourself and others.

Take care of your mind, body, and spirit.

Be good to yourself.

Diane

Wherever you are, I wish you a very Merry Christmas. I wish you happiness, joy, and many reasons to smile in the year ahead.

I don’t know about you, but I find Christmas to be both a time of joy and a time of sadness. It brings back childhood memories–memories of family that have grown more sentimental as I grow older. I remember the laughs, the minor mishaps, the anticipation, and the presence of loved ones who are no longer with us.

Although I am Jewish, my family always had a Christmas tree, which we decorated; I loved hanging the long strands of tinsel. I had seven brothers and sisters. We all waited in great excitement for the stroke of midnight so we could hurry downstairs to open our presents.

My parents are long gone. Three of my siblings have died. Christmas will never be the same.

Enjoy your family, whatever their ages. Have a lovely Christmas and turn the day into a celebration of love, peace, kindness, and compassion.

The Steward Corporation, which owns 31 hospitals, declared bankruptcy a few weeks ago. In addition to the hospitals it owns in Texas, it also has eight hospitals in Massachusetts.

I have a personal interest in these events because one of the Steward holdings is St. Joseph’s, where I was born. It is the oldest hospital in Houston. At the time of my birth, St. Joseph’s was a Catholic hospital, staffed in large part by nuns wearing habits.

In recent years, the hospital has been owned by a series of private equity firms, who envisioned ways of making a profit while delivering high-quality healthcare.

In Massachusetts, state leaders were outraged by Steward’s bankruptcy and lambasted the private equity firms:

Steward’s troubles in Massachusetts have drawn the ire of political figures including U.S. Sens. Elizabeth Warren and Edward Markey, who have said the company’s previous private equity owners “sold (Steward) for parts” and “walked away with hundreds of millions of dollars.” 

Massachusetts Gov. Maura Healey said Monday that the state had been preparing for a possible bankruptcy filing. Despite the filing, she said, Steward hospitals will remain open and patients should keep their appointments.

“This situation stems from and is rooted in greed, mismanagement and lack of transparency on the part of Steward leadership in Dallas, Texas,” Healey said Monday. “It’s a situation that should never have happened and we’ll be working together to take steps to make sure this never happens again.”

No such outrage in Texas, where state leaders worship at the shrine of the market.

Julian Gill of The Houston Chronicle wrote about the failure of Steward.

St. Joseph Medical Center is poised to be sold after its Dallas-based owner, Steward Health Care, this week filed for Chapter 11 bankruptcy, according to court documents. 

On Tuesday, the day after filing for Chapter 11 protections, Steward said in court documents that it plans to sell all of its hospital properties, which include St. Joseph and 30 other hospitals throughout the U.S. According to court documents, the company is “exploring a reorganization around a smaller footprint of hospitals.” 

Representatives for St. Joseph and Steward could not immediately be reached for comment.

Upon announcing the bankruptcy Monday, Steward said day-to-day operations are expected to continue without interruption during the bankruptcy proceedings…

St. Joseph is Houston’s only downtown hospital and the oldest general hospital in the city. The hospital has more than 700 beds, officials previously told the Chronicle, and many of its patients are covered by Medicaid and Medicare. In addition to St. Joseph, the bankruptcy affects hospitals in Odessa, Big Spring, Port Arthur, and Texarkana

St. Joseph has changed hands multiple times over the last two decades. In 2006, the hospital was sold to North Carolina-based Hospital Partners of America, Inc., after the previous owners, Christus Health, said it couldn’t afford to modernize the hospital’s aging buildings, according to earlier reports in the Chronicle. Hospital Partners initially invested heavily in the hospital but declared bankruptcy about two years later.

In 2011, a Tennessee-based company, Iasis Healthcare, acquired a majority interest in the hospital as part of the bankruptcy process. Iasis merged with Steward in 2017. 

About a year ago, the veterinarian operated on our dog Mitzi and told us (my wife Mary and me) that she has cancer.

Mitzi had three surgeries in one year. The first one was to remove a tumor on her leg that had grown to the size of an avocado. Three different vets said to leave it alone; do nothing. But then it burst and it had to be removed. It was benign. A few months later, she had a growth on her eyelid. We took her to a canine opthamologist, who cut it out and stitched her eyelid. It was benign.

Then another large tumor on a different leg; the vet operated and it was malignant. It was a “soft-tissue sarcoma.” It was “grade 3,” the worst. He said he tried to get it all out, but was not hopeful. Prognosis: maybe seven months, at best a year.

We began taking Mitzi to a canine oncologist. We told him no heroic treatments, because we believed we had hurt our last dog by subjecting her to too much treatment in a hopeless effort to save her. This time: No radiation, no heavy-duty chemicals. The vet understood. He prescribed a once-a-day pill plus supplements for arthritis. We saw him monthly.

Through all of this, Mitzi continued to be a happy, playful, loving dog. She loves people and other dogs. She weighs nearly 100 pounds and has a big smile. Her coat is a dark, dark brown that looks black. She has white paws that look like mittens (that’s why we named her Mitzi). Her DNA showed that she is 30% German Shepherd, plus 11% Siberian Husky, some Alaskan Malamute, and a little bit of other breeds. A friend found her in a shelter in Hayward, California, in 2012 and brought her to Brooklyn for us. when we asked what breed she is, the friend said, “Think of it this way: Her mother was a mutt, her father was a mutt. They met once.”

Over the past year, I walked her 3-5 times a day. I gave her the cancer pill, probiotics, arthritis meds, whatever she needed, every day. She went through bouts of diarrhea and uncontrollable urinating. For the past few weeks, she’s been wearing a diaper. I am the Dog Guardian, so these are my responsibilities.

On June 25, a week ago, we went to the oncologist. He said we should discontinue the cancer pill because Mitzi has been cancer-free for a year. Was she cured? No, it could return in the future. But for now, she is officially cancer-free.

That’s the best birthday present ever!

Mitzi, Survivor!

I had another terrific birthday present: I learned late last night that Columbia University Press is going to publish my memoirs! Why late last night? Because I missed the email informing me on Thursday.

What a great day!

I’m five years older than Joe Biden and still fighting.

Friday night birthday dinner at the River Cafe in Brooklyn, a gift from my wife Mary, a wonderful partner and friend.

And at the Commencement ceremonies of Wellesley College, my alma mater, President Paula Johnson announced that my family had funded a professorship in my name in the Education Department: The Diane Silvers Ravitch 1960 Chair for Public Education and the Common Good. The first holder of the Chair is Professor Soo Hong.

I am loving this day!

One of the joys of living in New York City is the vibrant cultural life. This winter, we have seen several plays and gone twice to the Metropolitan Opera.

In December, we saw Puccini’s La Boheme at the Met, which is a wonderful opera.

Last week, we got cheap (but excellent) seats for Puccini’s Turandot. The music and singing were outstanding, as were the gorgeous sets.

And I noticed that the seat in front of me had a name plaque on it, honoring someone who had made a generous donation. The plaque said “Judge and Mrs. Samuel I. Rosenman.” The name was familiar but I couldn’t place it. I couldn’t google during intermission because there was no guest internet service.

I googled when I got home and learned that Judge Rosenman was one of FDR’s closest associates. Wikipedia said that he wrote almost every speech that FDR gave, and he assembled FDR’s brain trust of advisors. Reading more, I learned that the granddaughter of Judge and Mrs. Rosenman is married to Merrick Garland.

What’s the point? Small world. History is all around us. Can you believe it?