Most people do not live in New York City and many of them probably wonder why anyone does. There are more than 8 million people here of every possible race, religion, ethnicity, nationality, and gender. Often it seems crowded, busy, and hurried. But it’s never boring.
Because the city is so polyglot, we New Yorkers tend to be unusually tolerant. We are accustomed to living with diversity. Trump is an exception to that tolerance, but then he lived in a golden penthouse and didn’t have much to do with his fellow New Yorkers. Now that he has moved to Mar-a-Lago, we don’t have to dream up reasons for his ingrained racism.
I watched the “ticker-tape” parade in honor of the New York Knicks (on television, not in person). Around two million people lined the streets from Battery Park to City Hall, according to the NYPD. It was a world-class celebration, topped only by the unadulterated joy in the streets and neighborhoods on the night of the Knicks’ fifth game, when they overcame a large deficit and won the championship in the closing minute or two. As the New York Times recorded, people were dancing in the streets across the city.
NYC is filled with surprising and delightful moments.
Let me tell you about a recent day. We drove from Brooklyn to lower Manhattan to go book-shopping at the Strand, a four-story building at the corner of Broadway and 12th Street. The Strand is an iconic bookstore, the largest in the city, with some 2.5 million books–new, used, and rare. It was packed with customers, mostly young people of high school and college age. There were four or five cashiers to handle the long lines. It was a beautiful sight to see.
Then we walked to Veselka, a Ukrainian restaurant, a few blocks away and enjoyed borscht, pierogies, stuffed cabbage, and schnitzel. Authentic and delicious.
The week before, we invited a friend to go to an Austrian restaurant–Cafe Katja– on Orchard Street on the Lower East Side. I remember when the Lower East Side was mostly slums. No more. The streets were crowded, again, mostly with young people. We ate a meal whose highlight was white asparagus, flown in from Holland. Wow.
The street is lined with restaurants, boutiques, and artsy shops. While we were eating our lunch, a pick-up band began playing across the street. In a minute, the street was filled with people enjoying the music.
Another night we went to Broadway to see Mariska Hargitay playing solo in “Every Brilliant Thing.” She was wonderful. We love watching her on “Law and Order: Special Victims Unit.” As we walked out of the theatre, we crossed Broadway, which was aglow with neon lights and alive with visitors and tourists.
Only in New York!
There’s something about living in this city that is simply joyful. Time and again, we experience that joy and understand why young people in search of adventure will always come to big cities. Despite what you may have heard, NYC is very safe. And the possibility of joy is always around the corner.

One reason I enjoyed teaching ELLs in New York was the opportunity to meet young people from all over the world as it was a personally enriching experience. While most of my students arrived from Haiti, Mexico and Central America, I also had the good fortune to teach a number of students from every continent other than Anarctica. Working in a school close to the city was an enormous educational advantage as well since the culture, entertainment and museums are amazing in New York as are most of tolerant New Yorkers as well. New York City offers a buffet of field trips for schools that can raise enough money to go. Whenever I wrote a grant, I often included a field trip or two to a Manhattan museum.
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This is the greatest place I’ve ever lived, and I’ve lived quite a few places around these here United States.
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Same here
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I grew up in West Virginia and came to NYC for the first time on a college trip when I was about 19. I fell in love with the city and have been ever since. I now live on Long Island and I recently took friends from Italy into the city for a few days of sight seeing. And while I love the city, I don’t navigate it well and had to ask directions frequently. The New Yorkers I asked were invariably kind and helpful.
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In my neighborhood in Brooklyn, there are often foreign tourists. They come to get a good view of the Statue of Liberty. I spot them when they are puzzling over a map. I always go up to them to offer directions. Any New Yorker would do that (said the girl from Texas).
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Love NYC! Our niece went to NYU &…never came back! Married a Long Island guy & has lived in Manhattan since college (a looong time). She does an infamous “Rat Tour” (she’s a Certified Rat Tour Guide!)–she was recommended by Time Out New York, was interviewed on “NewsNation,” NYC, in The New York Post & did a podcast/was in other media. She also took Jimmy Kimmel, Guijardo, Aunt Chippy & his cousin on the tour which they filmed when he was broadcasting from Brooklyn. (It never aired, because that was about the time when 47 tried to get his show censored/taken off the air, & he had SO many guests on that there wasn’t time.) Hopefully, it’ll be aired…someday. Anyway, if anyone reading this lives in or is visiting NYC & wants a tour, reply here, & I can look up the tour name/info. (can’t do it here–if I leave Diane’s blog, I’ll have to rewrite this comment).
Also–we LOVE Veselka–go there EVERY time we’re in NYC, so highly recommend it to you all.
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Ok–it’s the “Garbage & Rats Tour” (you can put it in your search engine)–received 100%/5-Star Reviews on TripAdvisor from 101 reviewers. If you’re planning a vacation, book soon–she is often booked solid during the spring & summer. Have fun!!
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Love The Strand. So cool that it’s actually still here and thriving!
A good friend and I always meet at Cafe Katja when he visits NYC.
Ukrainian food is exquisite. As are so many other expertly created dishes from around the world.
The music performance scene is still good but not what it used to be in Manhattan. Brooklyn and Queens are definitely happening, though.
We paid off the mortgage on our fixer upper last December. It’s now worth soooo much more than we bought it for thirty years ago. Could cash in big time but we love it here. And our daughter would def not approve the sale. She’s as attached as we are.
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NYC has its share of issues, including the absolutely crushing cost of living, but it is the most interesting and diverting city I’ve known. If I walk around the block once I’ll have two or three stories to tell.
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