Peter Greene, now retired after 39 years as a teacher in Pennsylvania, is a prolific writer. He has his own blog Curmudgacation, and he writes a column for Forbes. I am one of his most fervent admirers. He is a font of wisdom and common sense. In this post, he examines the cruelty of certain Arkansas elected officials who hate trans people. Greene notes the contradiction by those who claim they support “parental rights,” but not the rights of parents who support their children’s wish to be a different gender.
He writes:
The Arkansas state legislature is deeply worried about trans persons. Rep. Mary Bentley (R- 73rd Dist) has been trying to make trans kids go away for years as with her 2021 bill to protect teachers who used students dead names or misgender them (that’s the same year she pushed a bill to require the teaching of creationism in schools).

In 2023, Bentley successfully sponsored a bill that authorizes malpractice lawsuits against doctors who provide gender-affirming care for transgender youth. Now Bentley has proposed HB 1668, “The Vulnerable Youth Protection Act” which takes things a step or two further.
The bill authorizes lawsuits, and the language around the actual suing and collecting money part is long and complex– complex enough to suspect that Bentley, whose work experience is running tableware manufacturer Bentley Plastics, might have had some help “writing” the bill. The part where it lists the forbidden activities is short, but raises the eyebrows.
The bill holds anyone who “knowingly causes or contributes to the social transitioning of a minor or the castration, sterilization, or mutilation of a minor” liable to the minor or their parents. The surgical part is no shocker– I’m not sure you could find many doctors who would perform that surgery without parental consent, and certainly not in Arkansas (see 2023 law). But social transitioning? How does the bill define that?
“Social transitioning” means any act by which a minor adopts or espouses a gender identity that differs from the minor’s biological sex as determined by the sex organs, chromosomes, and endogenous profiles of the minor, including without limitation changes in clothing, pronouns, hairstyle, and name.
So a girl who wears “boy” jeans? A boy who wears his hair long? Is there an article of clothing that is so “male” that it’s notably unusual to see a girl wearing it? I suppose that matters less because trans panic is more heavily weighted against male-to-female transition. But boy would I love to see a school’s rules on what hair styles qualify as male or female….
The person filing the suit against a teacher who used the wrong pronoun or congratulated the student on their haircut could be liable for $10 million or more, and they’ve got 20 years to file a suit.
I’m never going to pretend that these issues are simple or easy, that it’s not tricky for a school to look out for the interests and rights of both parents and students when those parents and students are in conflict. But I would suggest remembering two things– trans persons are human beings and they are not disappearing. They have always existed, they will always exist, and, to repeat, they are actual human persons.
I was in school with trans persons in the early seventies. I have had trans students in my classroom. They are human beings, deserving of the same decency and humanity as any other human. I know there are folks among us who insist on arguing from the premise that some people aren’t really people and decency and humanity are not for everyone (and empathy is a weakness). I don’t get why some people on the right, particularly many who call themselves Christians, are so desperately frightened/angry about trans persons, but I do know that no human problems are solved by treating some human beings as less-than-human. And when your fear leads to policing children’s haircuts to fit your meager, narrow, brittle, fragile view of how humans should be, you are a menace to everyone around you. You have lost the plot. Arkansas, be better.

Unfortunately, Peter Greene, like many of my progressive peers, has not yet encountered the LGB critique of the transgender medicalization model currently being pushed on young people without evidence. Jamie Reed, a leftist Democrat and lesbian representing the LGB Courage Coalition, is a whistleblower from a gender clinic in Missouri whose testimony managed to shut down the center where she worked. She is currently traveling to state legislatures across the country, like this one in Wisconsin, to deliver speeches touting the poor evidence base for such procedures, her perspective as a lesbian married to a trans identifying female for 13 years, and her experience as a former true believer in gender transitions who saw firsthand the medical and permanent harms being done on young people’s bodies and minds before the age of consent. https://youtu.be/F8jdea-LXG8?si=Ykfks6r0CtUK0RWn
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I dunno, maybe it’s just me, but I think this is one issue where parental rights matter. Why should the legislature override the decisions of parents and doctors?
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Because the American doctors are not following the evidence. This is a cultural phenomenon that has taken over many institutions in rapid succession. If gender medical transition plans particularly target pregay, autistic, or sexually traumatized youth, I think it’s worth being very skeptical. If gender medicalization in young people creates adults who cannot enjoy sex, have lifelong cognitive and physical issues and limitations, then I think it’s upon us to stand for the rights of children to go through natural puberty intact. I don’t think that these are incompatible with progressive secular and scientific values. Did you watch Jamie Reed’s four minute testimony? Does it give pause?
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It’s none of your business what parents and their children decide to do. Butt out.
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This is a very disappointing response. In the cases of two parents being split on the decision whether to medicalize their child over a societally created gender identity, which parent should have a say? In California, it is often the parent that wants to medically transition the child, not the parent who wants to allow the child to grow and mature naturally and potentially be same sex attracted. Ted Hudacko’s case has been well publicized. There are many others. I know these parents well. They are part of my ROGD (Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria) parents’ groups. We don’t wish for our children to be cosmetically and irreversibly altered due to regressive and homophobic stereotypes being sold through big pharma and surgical “solutions” that have lifelong medical and psychological effects. We know too deeply the psychological issues our children are going through when dealing with adolescent identity formation. They are highly susceptible to trends and influencers, and do not have the cognitive abilities or executive function to determine whether they will want to enjoy sexual intimacy, reproduce, breastfeeding a baby, or understand the myriad effects of cross sex hormones on the body years in the future. We also carry the stories of the marginalized detransitioners who have deep regrets about the choices that were made when they were not old enough to make them. I give you one story of a young gay and autistic man who was put on the trans conveyer belt at a young age. There are too many of these stories to share here. But, they are important to know about. Indeed it was the story of Keira Bell’s detransition in the U.K. along with LGB whistleblowers at the Tavistock pediatric Gender Clinic, that forced the NHS to do a longterm systematic review that resulted in the Cass Report and an end to experimental state paid gender modifications on young people in the U.K. The U.S. owes its young people the same level of scrutiny and care. https://open.substack.com/pub/buttonslives/p/yarden-silveira-the-trans-origin?r=9benm&utm_medium=ios
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Your obsession with other people’s children is not healthy. Leave them alone. There have been trans people in every age and culture. None of my business.
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This is not civil discourse or honest engagement. You have no reason to make such a judgement about why I and hundreds of thousands of Democrats and feminists and parents and same sex attracted people care about this issue.
Human evolution took millions of years, and gender non-conforming, as well as same sex attracted people were always part of the equation. But humans, all humans, must go through developmental milestones, such as learning to walk, learning to talk, and going through puberty. When humans interfere with such natural and necessary developmental processes, it’s accurately called a human rights abuse. I don’t believe in foot binding, breast ironing, female genital mutilation, puberty suppressants, cross-sex hormones, or surgeries that inhibit sexual function, pleasure, and the reproductive process. Perhaps your spiritual belief allows you to see some benefit in each of these, as many mothers, aunts, and grandmas have followed a belief that tiny dysfunctional feet, or pain during sexual intercourse likewise make a young woman more “attractive”. My secular belief system stands outside of such interventions that hamper human pleasure, and I have a strong conviction that all such body modifications cause harm to the victim as well as send a message to all others that bodies should be brutally shaped to fit dysfunctional views of what humans “should” look like. Imagine what else young people imagine is wrong with them- skin color, length and width of the nose, the hips. I do not personally believe that we should exist in such a cosmetic based world in which young people should be encouraged to dissociate from their natural human bodies and seek life altering cosmetic modifications. Such alterations can only exist in a society that is informed by racism, sexism, homophobia, and cosmetic surgeons. That is not the world I seek to create or live in.
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Not my business. Not yours either. Live your best life.
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Good grief, could these GOP freak nudniks at least get into the 21st century on terra firma. Rep. Mary Bentley in addition to wanting trans kids to disappear from the universe also wants the teaching of creationism. Totally nuts and far right wing reactionary.
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Except that there hundreds of thousands of us on the left fighting medicalization of children and calling for medical accountability for the thousands of detransitioners like Clementine Breene suing the pediatric gender doctors in Los Angeles and San Francisco. Check out Democrats for an Informed Approach to Gender and the LGB Courage Coalition.
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Mind your own business. Leave the trans kids and their families alone. Butt out.
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Jamie Reed also appears to be trying to capitalize on right-wing panic around transgender people with wild claims. Staff at the St Louis Children’s Hospital, and the parents whose children received treatment there, have a completely different story of how that clinic operates, which have held up under investigation:
https://missouriindependent.com/2023/03/01/transgender-st-louis-whistleblower/
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What particularly do you believe that Jamie Reed, LGB Coalition Coalition, Democrats for an Informed Approach to Gender, Parents with Inconvenient Truths about Trans, and the other whistleblowers, gay rights activists, and detransitioners, have to capitalize on by asking for scientific evidence, better psychological services and guardrails, and to be heard? What am I gaining here by being attacked by the author of this blog whom I’ve held in high esteem since she came out as a whistleblower herself against the push for high stakes testing and privatization of public schools? We want to make sure that the Democratic Party understands the conflicts of interests for gay, gender non-conforming, autistic, traumatized, or mentally ill kids when society pushes an intervention that is not medically needed. We want rational secular discussion and the right to review the medical case being made to push off label medications for kids who feel awkward or different or outside gender regressive stereotypes.
Here is Jamie Reed after many sought to discredit her. Even The NY Times vindicated her case.
She states here in the Free Press which originally published her whistleblower account:
So many critics and media outlets tried to paint not just me but the entire issue of transgender youth as a showdown between the right and left. As a lifelong member of the left, a queer woman married to a transman, I’d clearly been brainwashed or paid off—or probably even both—by conservatives. I had a “clear ideological bias.” Even my hometown’s left-leaning newspaper was more interested in the political affiliations of my attorneys than the substance and science of my claims.
When I met with New York Times writer Azeen Ghorayshi, who wrote a story about the controversy after The Free Press first broke the news, she kept insisting that I’d changed in some fundamental way. Her piece, which was published in August and mostly confirmed my account, portrayed me as someone who’d left her core values behind. Since joining the clinic, my views had, in Ghorayshi’s words, “hardened and become political.”
I respectfully disagree. I’m no more or less political than I’ve ever been, and my views certainly haven’t hardened. What changed was my realization that I—along with so many other smart, well-intentioned, compassionate people like me on the left—was wrong.
It sucks to admit that you’re wrong. It’s not just humbling; you also have to take a closer look at how you were complicit in misleading others. I’m not proud of my eager participation in the pediatric gender industry, which has led thousands of youths astray, medically treating their dysphoria when many of them mainly needed counseling. But my progressive beliefs aren’t what led me down the wrong path. In fact, those beliefs are what helped me finally see the light.
I was raised to believe in the core principles of the Democratic Party, which includes the willingness to sacrifice one’s individual needs for the good of the collective society. In college, I became a radical. I was anti-capitalist and anti-globalization. I read books by left-wing heroes like Noam Chomsky, Howard Zinn, and Derrick Jensen. I lived in an anarchist collective and was pepper-sprayed at protests for everything from the Bush-Gore presidential debate in 2000 to the Iraq War invasion in 2003. I remained firmly embedded in the radical left for decades. For as long as I can remember, I believed in and fought for transgender rights. My peers and I rebelled against the idea of strict gender roles and gender conformity. The old ideas of what a man and woman had to be were outdated and repressive. But we attacked these problems by trying to change the culture, not by irrevocably changing our bodies.
https://open.substack.com/pub/bariweiss/p/whistleblower-jamie-reed-courage-admit-wrong?r=9benm&utm_medium=ios
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I believe that what others choose to do–like getting an abortion or not getting an abortion–is not my business. I took care of my children, I take care of my grandchildren. I don’t expect the legislature of my state to tell me how to be a parent or grandparent. No one in my family is trans. I don’t tell their parents what I think they must do. It’s not my business.
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I trust Diane Ravitch and the people who enjoy her writing to be as skeptical of bad arguments and wild copy/paste as any other educated readers would be. Bari Weiss’s anti-education Texan situation simply doesn’t hold up here.
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Birdyann, did you mean “Texan” or “trans”?
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And for people who are actually interested in this subject, Matt Bernstein held a thoughtful interview with a young woman who had a supportive family and was allowed to experience transition on her own terms. I think this is a useful intro. https://youtu.be/GRj4wbH1COY?si=dLys0cq4TcRAWzDq
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I meant Texan, since maestramalinche appears to just be copy/pasting long passages from pundit Bari Weiss, most recently known for attempting to get the unaccredited degree mill “University of Austin” off the ground.
https://www.austinmonthly.com/how-the-so-called-university-of-austin-is-faring-nearly-two-years-after-conception/
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Ok
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Ad hominem.
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I was raised with manners and won’t lower myself to arguing with TERFs. “Ad hominem” indeed.
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