GOP politicians have become cynically obsessed with “parental rights,” insisting that parents always know best. Parents, the politicians assert, should control what their children learn, how they are taught, what books they should read, etc. Their judgment must take precedence over that of teachers, who are professionals. No one has explained how teachers can respond to the differing views of multiple parents, or why teachers should disregard their professional knowledge and experience and defer to parents.
Hardly a day passes without a news story about parents who abused their children or even murdered them. There are good parents and bad parents. There are well-educated parents who homeschool their children, and there are ignorant parents who pass along their ignorance to their children.
Here is a story that captures some of these points.
Ruby Franke developed a reputation as a child-rearing expert who advises parents to be ultra-strict with their children. She was recently arrested for child abuse after one of her children escaped to a neighbor’s house and asked for food and water. His ankles and wrists were secured with duct tape, and there were lacerations on his legs caused by ropes.
A Utah mother who chronicled her strict parenting style on YouTube and other social media channels was arrested and charged with aggravated child abuse this week after one of her children climbed out a window and ran to a nearby house seeking help, officials said.
Ruby Franke, 41, was arrested on Wednesday in Ivins, a city in southern Utah, at the home of Jodi Hildebrandt, her business partner, who was also arrested. Ms. Franke hosted the now-defunct YouTube channel “8 Passengers,” where she posted videos about her parenting approach with her six children, including refusing them food as a form of punishment.
Ms. Franke and Ms. Hildebrandt were each charged on Friday with six counts of aggravated child abuse, according to the Washington County attorney’s office. Each count carries a maximum sentence of 15 years in prison and a fine of up to $10,000, the attorney’s office said.
According to an affidavit, Ms. Franke’s 12-year-old son, identified as R.F. in the document, climbed out a window at Ms. Hildebrandt’s home and went to a neighbor’s house on Wednesday morning, asking for food and water. The child had duct tape on his ankles and wrists, as well as open wounds. He appeared to be emaciated and malnourished….
At one point, Ms. Franke had nearly 2.5 million subscribers to her channel, following the lives of her six children: Shari, Chad, Abby, Julie, Russell and Eve. In 2020, Chad Franke, then 15, told YouTube viewers in one family video that he had been sleeping on a beanbag for months and that he had lost his bedroom after playing a prank on his little brother, according to Insider.
In one video recorded by Ms. Franke and reposted to TikTok, she said her daughter Eve’s teacher had called her to say Eve had come to school without a lunch. Ms. Franke said the teacher was “uncomfortable with her being hungry” but that Eve was responsible for making her own lunch, and that “the natural outcome is she is just going to be hungry.”
“Hopefully nobody gives her food, and nobody steps in and gives her a lunch, because then she’s not going to learn from it,” Ms. Franke said.

A Utah mother who chronicled her strict parenting style on YouTube and other social media channels was arrested and charged with aggravated child abuse this week after one of her children climbed out a window and ran to a nearby house seeking help, officials said.”
Ms. Franke hosted the now-defunct YouTube channel “8 Passengers,” where she posted videos about her parenting approach with her six children, including refusing them food as a form of punishment.“
So the mother posted the abuse of her children on YouTube for some time but it took the escape of one of the children for the Utah officials do do anything?
I’d say the mother and her business partner are not the only ones guilty of a crime in this case.
And what about all the millions of people who viewed these sick videos?
Has our society lost its collective mind?
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Yes, segments of our society have lost their collective mind.
The distrust and disrespect for expertise is dangerous.I would be interested in how many of Ms. Franke’s YouTube viewers attempted to practice her style of parenting.
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Bonnie,
It started with distrust of medical authority. Then scientific authority. Now it’s not surprising to hear someone say, “I don’t believe in gravity.”
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No one has explained how
a score based system casts
a glow of “Know-How” from
a “Know-That” series of
facts, codified into existence
by the powers that be.
Well said is not well done.
Know that is not know how.
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“Know that is not know how.”
And knowing how is not the same as actually doing X activity.
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Watch: the Duggar Family on Prime. OY!
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If parents always knew best, there would be no need for child protective services that are generally quite busy in this country.
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I read this comparison years ago, that to legally drive a car, we have to take a driving test, a written test, have our vision tested… on a regular basis. Every few years to continue to drive legally we have to take one or more those tests again. As someone who started driving at 15, that gets old after more than sixty years and millions of miles driving.
There are no requirements to become a parent. Traitor Trump is a perfect example as a child who was abused by his father and as a sperm donor who taught most of his children how to be mob bosses, criminals, liars, thieves.
I think some high schools offer courses with some guidance but those all may be electives.
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It’s not all clear why we are supposed to believe that parents know best.
There are no knowledge or skills requirements for being a parent (other than know how to fit the parts together.)
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all these pedos are sick. The ones who cry the loudest at donald trump like madonna, johnny depp, tiegan, rob reiner, and hundreds more are too. They are just scared they are going to be observed lilke the sickos they are.
https://nj1015.com/ex-christie-aide-paid-for-sex-with-6-year-old-girl-cops-say/
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Squatty,
Trump hung out with convicted pedophile Jeffrey Epstein. Jeffrey specialized in teenage girls.
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LIES Diane, over 20 years ago, never went to Epstein island. Clinton, Obama, Biden, justice roberts hundres of celebrities, not trump good try, so lost.
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Squats,
Open the link for a photo of Trump and Jeffrey Epstein:
https://www.nbcnews.com/news/amp/rcna7253
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Squats,
Here’s a photo of Trump and Jeffrey Epstein. Melania too!
Read the story about their “bromance.”
https://www.vanityfair.com/news/2021/01/jeffrey-epstein-and-donald-trump-epic-bromance
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Squats,
I hate to break your heart, but here’s live archival footage of Trump and Jeffrey Epstein partying together in 1992:
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It’s not all clear why we are
supposed to believe that
STATE ACTORS know best.
If they did know what’s
best for the children,
why do they continue the
test and punish?
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Quite true, NoBrick, quite true!
Give NoBrick a Kewpie Doll!
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The Washington Post had a story about “influencers” – both adult (parent) and child influencers – just three days ago.
“The bill was passed unanimously through the Illinois Senate and signed into law Aug. 11. The law would entitle child influencers in the state under 16 to a percentage of earnings based on how often they appear in video blogs or online content that generates at least 10 cents per view. Under the law, parents or guardians must place that money in a trust, which can be accessed when the child turns 18.”
“…the law provides a legal avenue for children of influencers to recoup profits from their efforts. And the profits are astounding: Momfluencing itself is a billion-dollar corner of the influencing industry, said Sara Petersen, author of ‘Momfluenced.’ You can sell almost anything under the sun by tying it to motherhood or parenting,’ she said. ‘If you can create a whole narrative about someone’s ability to raise a happy, healthy family, you can more effectively market that product.’ ”
“Family and parenting influencers have come under closer scrutiny lately, because there’s a growing backlash against parents who broadcast their children’s milestones, frustrations and inner lives for millions to watch…the backlash against parenting influencers reached new levels when a mother was arrested after her 12-year-old son showed up at a neighbor’s home appearing malnourished and with open wounds. Ruby Franke, a Utah mother of six, had a popular (now-deleted) YouTube channel called 8 Passengers that boasted more than 2 million subscribers. The show became controversial when viewers began calling Franke out for harsh parenting tactics.”
https://www.washingtonpost.com/parenting/2023/09/06/parenting-influencers-child-earnings/
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Diane, you don’t think I knew about those pics I am way smarter than you when it comes to facts. Trump never went to Epstein island and after he found out about kind of person epstein was he kicked him out. Sorry, there is no real connection onoy your picture and make-believe. Find me a picture of micahel obama pregnant, find me of hillary pregnant, find me a picture of Obama at a young age please.
Trump is the one going after the pedophiles and cracking down on sex trafficking, again you are wrong.
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Trump was a dear friend of pedophile Jeffrey Epstein for at least 20 years.
I don’t know if he visited Jeffrey’s island, but it is documented that they were very close friends.
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Squatty,
I said that I didn’t know whether Trump traveled with Jeffrey Epstein to pedophile island, but an article in Esquire says Trump traveled with Epstein on his private jet on many occasions. Maybe even to his private island.
“The wealthy pair were fixtures of the 1980s and 1990s society scene. “In those days, if you didn’t know Trump and you didn’t know Epstein, you were a nobody,” famed attorney Alan Dershowitz, who’s served as a lawyer for both men, told The New York Times last year.
The same Times article told of a party the future president hosted at his Mar-a-Lago club in 1992. The guest list? Epstein, Trump, and 28 “calendar girl” competition contestants. Ten years later, Trump told New York Magazine that he’d known Epstein for 15 years. “Terrific guy,” said Trump. “He’s a lot of fun to be with. It is even said that he likes beautiful women as much as I do, and many of them are on the younger side.” Trump’s name appears on the flight log for Epstein’s plane, and Epstein’s brother claimed that Trump flew on the aircraft “numerous times””
https://www.esquire.com/entertainment/tv/a32784116/jeffrey-epstein-donald-trump-connection-friendship-explained/
He doesn’t catch pedophiles. He plays with them, parties with them, and travels with them.
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