Joanne Yatvin is a retired teacher, principal, superintendent, and literacy expert in Oregon.
Topping the national news several months ago was a story about two dangerous criminals escaping from a high security prison. For several months they had devoted themselves to preparations: persuading a woman prison employee to get them the tools they needed and agree to drive them away when they got outside the prison walls, digging a route to the outside of the prison from their cell, and working late at night to avoid attracting notice. When their preparations were finally complete, they also went through several rehearsals before carrying out their plan. Unfortunately for them, they were captured only a few days after their escape. Their promised driver had broken her promise and left them without a plan or an opportunity to practice any new tactics to reach safety.
What interested me about this story was that men who had wasted so many years of their lives in crime rather than seeking education or legal jobs were able to plan so well, work hard, and show so much patience in carrying our their escape. They certainly showed “grit” when the goal was important to them and the stakes were high.
Another story of grit is told in one of my favorite movies, “Cool Hand Luke”, which is about a man arrested and imprisoned for a minor crime. Because he is smarter and more independent and resourceful than his fellow inmates, he is continually singled out for punishment and public humiliation. Yet, he endures everything and continues to defy prison rules and trying to escape. Finally, he steals a prison truck and drives a long distance before hiding out in a deserted building. Unfortunately, the prison officials manage to track him down and set fire to the building. In the end Luke chooses to take his own life rather than surrender. Yet, by losing his life he also wins: he will never go back to prison and no one can punish him ever again.
Although Luke is gone at the end of the movie, his lessons of “grit” inspire other prisoners to follow his example and stand up for themselves against prison cruelty. Although the movie shows so much harshness and sadness, its ultimate message is one of hope.
In both the real prison escape and the movie’s story, I found lessons about “grit” not understood by the experts now calling for teaching that skill to students in the classroom. Not tyrants, prison guards, nor teachers can teach grit. Human beings—and most animals– develop grit only when they are so dedicated to reaching a particular goal that they will push on through obstacles, rejections and repeated failures.
As a teacher and principal I often saw ordinary students develop grit on their own because the conditions in the classroom were right. Their teachers taught lessons that were interesting to young people and offered opportunities for self-chosen projects, collaboration with classmates, and innovation. And because the kids had already tasted success and satisfaction in previous classroom activities, they believed they could stretch themselves even further this time. Yes, the work was harder than before, but it was doable, and in their eyes the goal was worth the extra effort. They had already developed grit and could use it. And they believed in themselves.
Education should be a dynamic experience for all students. It’s not preparation for college or the workplace, but a laboratory for exploring who you are and what you want to do; for trying out your interests and talents in a safe place and for sifting out the gold buried in the sand of school subjects. It’s also a place to develop grit because you believe you can.

Someone who gets it.
A while ago the book THE OTHER WES MOORE came out, written by a man named Wes Moore who is a Rhodes Scholar. He found out about another man named Wes Moore who was in prison for murder, so he researched their allegedly parallel lives (their lives are actually much different than the author makes out). The book has been used, including by the author himself, to promote “grit” ideology because the author credits his success to the “grit” he developed in military school.
But if you look at the story, the other Wes Moore was running his own drug business by the time he was 14. You’re going to tell me that didn’t take grit? Being available for deals 24/7? Knowing all his customers and suppliers and keeping everything together? Dodging cops and rival dealers/gangs? Please, grit is not what the other Wes Moore lacked.
The true difference between the two men is that the author had a much more intact and functional family. They were middle class before his father died. Both his parents were well educated. Even when they became poor, they still had resources – they lived with his grandparents, his mother knew how to get him into good schools, she was a very active and present part of his life. The other Wes Moore was raised by a drug-addicted mother who herself had grown up in generational poverty and by his older brother who was also a drug dealer. The author had plenty of adult connections in his life who were pulling hard for him. The other man really had no one, except for one brief period in a job training program where he developed a good relationship with his mentor, which was the only time he had come close to thriving.
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Grits
Quoting Forrest: “That’s all I’ve got to say.”
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Perhaps the wealthy can teach their children “grit” through exchange programs with youth in Oakland, Baltimore, Chicago, or Compton or perhaps send them to juvenile offender centers or prisons for even more “grit” and the exchange students can experience going to a posh private school or fancy suburban public school, be driven from one enrichment activity to another while their counterparts can come up with material for their college essays.
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Agree, Who is anyone kidding? Most of our students use grit everyday just to get through their daily lives. Before leaving the house, they search for clean clothes to wear, food to eat, wake up younger siblings and get them ready and feed, struggle to get to the bus on time,do homework on the bus. They could write the book on grit.
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Enough of “grit” already.
But speaking of dark, bittersweet prison break movies:
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“One Flew Over the Cukoo’s Nest” took place in a mental hospital and the main character didn’t escape. But he did show lots of grit in opposing the nurse in charge.
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Yet ultimately it was a prison. And of course neither McMurphy nor Luke escapes.
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Sarah and Always Learning: Don’t forget the two most important elements of Grit: wanting very much to reach a particular goal and believing you can do it.
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I would add: BEING TOLD from childhood, by your family, by the persons representative of you in media and textbooks, by the way you are treated by politicians and legal mandates, that you CAN reach a particular goal is a strong reason why you believe you can do it.
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Whoopi Goldberg (on The View, today) stated the reason for her success was that nobody told her she COULD NOT.
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Actually . . . Luke is shot by The Man With No Eyes when he comes out of the church, mocking the warden by parroting his words, “What we have here is a failure to communicate!” The prison guards decide to drive Luke to the hospital that is further away knowing that he’ll die on the way.
But no matter . . . your point about schools and grit is clear and applicable.
My husband and I will often hear about elaborate & complicated scams that criminals have cooked up, and said, “Wouldn’t it be easier to simply be honest?” As public school teachers, we’ve often wondered if the criminals who designed these schemes did well in school, or if the sort of intelligence they obviously have wasn’t valued because it’s not the “fill in the bubble” kind. What if all that creativity and diligence had been channeled in different ways?
p.s. The first time I saw “Cool Hand Luke” was with my high school English teacher, Mrs. Bologna, who showed the film as an example of “the tragic hero.” Now SHE was a truly wonderful teacher!
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Here is a story. During the Viet Nam war, a Sargent at Fort Dix teaching eighteen-year-olds from the inner cities of the East Coast told me how many would fall asleep in class or otherwise not attend to instruction. They then failed basic. When they had failed twice, they were given a third round of instruction and were sent to the war anyway. He always assumed most were killed. If the threat of operating a poorly maintained weapon you need in working order to save your life can’t teach you “grit,” I am not sure what can.
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“Sticktoitness” is a great synonym for “True grit”
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