The Washington Post tells the story of Baby Milo. His mother learned midway through her pregnancy that the fetus had a rare fatal condition. It would die within hours or days of its birth. She wanted to get an abortion but Florida abortion law made it impossible. The unborn baby had a heartbeat. No doctor would break the law by performing an abortion despite the fatal diagnosis. She had to carry the baby for three months. Baby Milo was born, then died in 99 hours. That must have made legislators happy to know the baby was born, despite the toll on its mother and father.
Milo Evan Dorbert drew his first and last breath on the evening of March 3. The unusual complications in his mother’s pregnancy tested the interpretation of Florida’s new abortion law.
Deborah Dorbert discovered she was pregnant in August. Her early appointments suggested the baby was thriving, and she looked forward to welcoming a fourth member to the family. It didn’t occur to her that fallout from the U.S. Supreme Court’s decision to overturn a half-century constitutional right to abortion would affect them.
A routine ultrasound halfway through her pregnancy changed all that.
Deborah and her husband, Lee, learned in late November that their baby had Potter syndrome, a rare and lethal condition that plunged them into an unsettled legal landscape.
The state’s ban on abortion after 15 weeks of gestation has an exception for fatal fetal abnormalities. But as long as their baby’s heart kept beating, the Dorberts say, doctors would not honor their request to terminate the pregnancy. The doctors would not say how they reached their decision, but the new law carries severe penalties, including prison time, for medical practitioners who run afoul of it. The hospital system declined to discuss the case.
Instead, the Dorberts would have to wait for labor to be induced at 37 weeks.
For the next three months, the Dorberts did their best to prepare for their second son’s short life. They consulted with palliative care experts and decided against trying to prolong his life with high-tech interventions.
“The most important thing for us was to let him know he was loved,” Deborah said.
The day before Milo was born, the Dorberts sat down with their son Kaiden to explain that the baby’s body had stopped working and that he would not come home. Instead, someday, they told Kaiden, they would all meet as angels. The 4-year-old burst into tears, telling them that he did not want to be an angel….
Without functioning kidneys, a fetus with Potter syndrome cannot produce the amniotic fluid that allows the lungs to expand and that cushions the growing body. The babies who survive until birth typically have contracted limbs, club feet and flattened features from being compressed against the uterus wall.
But after Deborah’s 12-hour labor, Milo turned out to be 4 pounds and 12 ounces of perfection, with tiny, flawlessly formed hands and feet and a head of brown hair.
“I thought I had my miracle,” said Peter Rogell, the baby’s grandfather, who attended the delivery. He allowed himself a moment of hope until the obstetrician cut the umbilical cord that for 37 weeks had performed the functions Milo’s underdeveloped lungs and missing kidneys would now take over.
He never cried or tried to nurse or even opened his eyes, investing every ounce of energy in intermittent gasps for air.
“That was the beginning of the end,” Rogell said, recalling the persistent gulps that he thought at first were hiccups but turned out to be his grandson’s labored efforts to inhale.
Lee read a book to his dying son — “I’ll Love You Forever,” a family favorite that the Dorberts had given Kaiden for Valentine’s Day — and sang Bob Marley’s “Three Little Birds.”
For 99 minutes that lasted a lifetime, they cuddled and comforted their newborn.
Ron DeSantis recently changed the Florida abortion law to make it more restrictive: abortions not permitted after six weeks. The Governor and legislature have essentially banned abortion in the state since few women know they are pregnant within six weeks. They may think their period is delayed, and they won’t have time to get the required doctor’s approval.
The six-week ban won’t go into effect until after the state’s Supreme Court has decided a challenge to the 15-week ban. Since DeSantis appointed four of seven justices, the court’s approval is expected.
Expect more heart-breaking stories, more grief, more sadness.

“But as long as their baby’s heart kept beating, the Dorberts say, doctors would not honor their request to terminate the pregnancy.”
Confusing. If the heart stops beating, then it wouldn’t be an abortion, would it?
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Unfortunately, the draconian laws means it isn’t that simple. There are quite a few articles like this.
https://www.npr.org/sections/health-shots/2022/11/15/1135882310/miscarriage-hemorrhage-abortion-law-ohio
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It’s called a spontaneous abortion if it’s a miscarriage and a missed abortion if all of the material isn’t expelled, so it’s still an abortion
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In medical terms, not in the way it’s perceived by society
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In medical terms, not the way society sees it.
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One size doesn’t fit all situations. There are too many exceptions to have a hard and fast rule.
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In the early 80’s I had a fetus that was 16 weeks along. Doctor said the heart had stopped functioning a few days before and the fetus had passed. Doctors at one hospital had refused to do a D&C because the baby “was still in there and fighting” there was NO heartbeat. Their all male ethics board said “God will expel the baby in his time” My OBGYN ordered me to be transferred to another hospital and at 2 AM I had my procedure. Doctor told my husband the fetus was so deformed that it was never going to make it..had half a skull and no feet or hands and instead was giving me sepsis. When I received the paperwork in the mail to send to insurance it stated that I had had an abortion of a non breathing fetus.So even though my fetus’s heart had stopped a few weeks before that it was still considered an abortion. This was before routine sonograms and testing. Today they would have found it right away. Yet I might not have been able to get the procedure done if I lived in Florida or one of those other extreme states.
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In some states today, the law would have forced you to give birth to a dead fetus or to one that was horribly deformed.
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For over an hour and a half, the people and leaders of Florida made a baby endure trauma and suffering. The voters of Florida should be ashamed and made to feel that same anguish. But for some reason, I don’t think the bar has hit bottom yet. This isn’t the last we will hear about babies and parents going through excruciating pain.
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No, we have not hit bottom yet. Baby Milo spent his very short life struggling to breathe until his undeveloped lungs failed, meaning that Baby Milo and his family suffered for 90 minutes.
Then again, neither Ron DeSantis, his wife, or any of their friends or relatives had to go through this horrible experience. They truly do not care.
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DeSantis is reluctant to crow about the six week abortion ban because it would not be a selling point for most of the country. He’ll save his victory dance for a right wing extremist audience. A six week abortion ban without exceptions is just “cruel and unusual punishment,” particularly when the health of the mother or fetus is at stake.
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DeSantis is a heartless ___________ (think whatever you want to add to the first four words that describes how inhuman and heartless this GOP fascist monster is who is trying to outdo Traitor Trump’s malignant narcissism).
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DeFascist signed the abortion law late at night, surrounded by supporters behind closed doors.
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I*n other news of the sickening, hateful, ignorant, and disgusting, the loser, seditionist, current presidential candidate, and career criminal recently found liable for sexual assault Donald “Jabba the” Trump just announced that should he be elected again (may all the gods forbid), he would issue an Executive Order ending birthright citizenship, which, OF COURSE, the moron doesn’t even know that he cannot do because birthright citizenship is enshrined in the Fourteenth Amendment to the Constitution.
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I’m a dilettante in this area so I’m surely overlooking something, but I suppose there’s an argument that this comes down to how the 14th Amendment should be interpreted. I feel pretty confident that SCOTUS wouldn’t go down that road, but not confident enough to say there’s no chance they’d do it. But is there an argument that that sentence in the 14th Amendment was merely intended to override the holding in Dred Scott that African Americans cannot be citizens? Ironically, this might have every Justice (except possibly Gorsuch) turn the 14th-amendment hermeneutics they’ll use in the affirmative action cases upside down.
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There’s also the issue that Melania was still an undocumented immigrant when she gave birth to Barron. It would be bizarre (but not unprecedented) for the court to overturn so clearly established an interpretation. This court seems to be capable of anything. I mean, War Is Peace, Ignorance Is Strength, Slavery is Freedom levels of reinterpretation.,
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Oh, and there would be a whole lot of (like many millions of) examples of, Hey, guess what? You’re not a citizen anymore. Kind ex post facto if you ask me. Imagine this: someone who has paid social security and medicare and held a social security number all his or her life who is suddenly told, “You’re not a citizen anymore.” Bizarro world. But I wouldn’t put anything below these Fascists.
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Catholic schools are the common good. (Notre Dame’s reinvention of the term)
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My guess is that the GOP primary is crowded because there’s an unspoken expectation that Trump will not be on the ticket. That he will be convicted or something else. The walls are closing in. The wheels of Justice grind slowly.
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The wheels of justice grind slowly UNLESS you are a relatively poor and powerless person, in which case they are fast and furious.
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uh…The story positions itself as if the laws against abortion are about the life of a baby.
The goal of the anti-abortionists is to control women’s bodies.
Aren’t we far enough into the Republican agenda to know that the GOP lies?
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Suggestions for judicial selections: One Judicial Commission/ 3 Dems and 3 Repubs / a mandatory checklist of qualifications decided by a judicial panel
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There used to be a custom that nominees for the federal bench were rated by the American Bar Assiciation. When many of Trump nominees were rated “unqualified,” Trump abandoned the practice.
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I had forgotten about that Diane. I would propose taking the appointments completely out of politicians’ hands. No more planting judges to cover the mischief that is planned for the future. BTW, no more shopping for favorable judges either.
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A religion-addled liberal is willing to assess Republicans in the worst of terms. But, he/she refuses to believe GOP men want women punished by the pain of childbirth.
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And, that is even after Robert P George, co-founder of the National Organization for Marriage and American Principles Project and, co-author of the Manhattan Declaration said that he was aware of people who believed promiscuity was a result of abortion.
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Reblogged this on What's Gneiss for Education and commented:
This is what a fascist State can do to innocent parents and to their children. Baby Milo suffered due to the intentional cruelty of the State.
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Unfortunately, abortions are sometimes necessary for the health and well-being of both mother and child. These exceptions are common enough to make the current abortion restrictions inhumane instead of lifesaving. With the rising numbers of maternal mortality rates during childbirth, one wonders whose life these legislatures are trying to save. I wonder how they would feel if their wife/child/sister found themselves in the above situation.
Leave medical decisions to the medical field, not to elected or appointed officials.
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The suffering caused by RePUG-ni-CONS is SICKENING.
All RePUG-ni-CON party knows is destruction. They are HITLER’s Nazi party.
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I know I won’t be the first or last to say this, but the mother and her doctor are the only two people who were should ever have any say over what happens to a woman’s body.
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