Before you read this comment by a reader, let me say what I believe: Everyone should pursue as much education as they want and as they need. I believe that education is a human right and should be free through higher education, an investment by society in its future. Not everyone wants to go to college or feels the need to go to college; they may change their mind at a later date, and if they do, that’s okay. There is no reason that everyone should be expected to follow the same path to a degree. The average age of college students is somewhere in the mid-20s, reflecting the fact that many people start or drop back in when they want to do so. And that is as it should be. Higher education should be a matter of personal choice and readiness, not an obligation that one fulfills grudgingly to get a piece of paper.

This reader sees many paths to a successful life through the experiences of her family members:

I teach in a low income (nearly 80% free/reduced lunch) public high school and we have been told to ensure every student is college ready and focused on attending post-secondary education.  While I don’t completely disagree with ensuring students have the skills and knowledge to make any post-secondary choice, I don’t think pushing all students to focus on college as the only real option is positive.

I use my own family as an example.  My dad finished an AA and then completed his plumbing apprenticeship.  He has been a successful plumber for over 40 years.  My mom completed her BA in Accounting when I was a child and worked when we needed the extra money.  She recently completed her MS in Accounting (at age 61) and has worked in accounting and payroll positions for the last 20 years.

There are 4 kids in our family – 2 girls and 2 boys.  I went from high school to university completing my BA in English and later my teaching certification, M.Ed in International Education, and am currently working on my Ph.D.  My younger sister got her AS moved on to university and got her BS and her teaching certification, taught for a while and went back and earned her M.Ed.  My brothers, raised in the same household, took different paths.  One went from high school to the Marines, served 3 tours in Iraq, and after 4 years in the military got out and has earned his AS and is now slowly working on his BS.  The other tried community college and hated it.  He then got into the pipe fitters union and began his apprenticeship.  He’s currently working and considering a degree in construction management so that if he gets injured or simply too old to do the heavy pipe fitting work he has another option.

Now for the best part of the tale.  We’re all four happily married.  We all own homes.  We all have enough money to have the things we need and some of the things we want.  None of us is rich.  We all took different roads to success and did need post-secondary training to be successful, but we didn’t all need college.

This story shows my students they have options and that whichever option they take they will be supported and can be successful.  The total focus on college bound and college ready makes those who don’t have access to federal loans feel defeated.  It makes those who just can’t imagine a few more years behind a school desk feel unsuccessful.  Let’s show our students that they have options and how to access those options rather that focus on only one option.