Darrell Moss became concerned about the number of adolescents who died in automobile accidents and began to research brain development. He is not an educator nor a medical expert, but he asked if he could share his findings.
He wrote the following.
To teachers,
This paper is not intended to tell any of you how to teach. It does, however, make recommendations of what I believe should be added to the curriculum of public education. How to teach them is your expertise.
In 2013 I asked: Why is there so much destructive, especially self-destructive adolescent behavior; is there anything we can do to curb it?
I went into my lab consisting of beakers of curiosity, common sense, contemplation, meditation, and one filled to the brim with hope. Eight years later, I say yes. After you have read my recommendations to improve preadolescent schooling that follow the results of my research, I hope you will too. Here, I am primarily concerned with automobile accidents, but its solution applies to all destructive behavior. Pertinent recent information tells us that self-driving cars probably won’t be available to the general public until the year 2050.
In a May 19th, 2021 issue of Globe and Mail, Jason Tchir quoted Kelly Funkhouser, head of connected and automated vehicles for Consumer Reports: “I’ve been saying for the last five years that self driving cars aren’t likely to be here before, I would guess, 2050. Anyone telling you it’s sooner than that is trying to sell you something, whether it’s a product or a dream.” Then, in a June 5, 2021 issue of the Wall Street Journal, Christopher Mims wrote: “In 2021 some experts aren’t sure when if ever, individuals will be able to purchase steering wheel-free cars that drive themselves off the lot.” He continues “In contrast to investors and CEO’s, academics who study artificial intelligence, systems engineering and autonomous technologies have long said that creating a fully self-driving automobile would take many years, perhaps decades.”
According to CDC statistics, we have lost 983,028 young people, ages 16-24, from automobile accidents since 1913; and for a narrower range, 255,452, ages 15-19, since 1975. (These include 2017) As I write, I will make passing remarks about other features of my book in progress: The Syllabus of Adulthood, a book responding to damage done to children when the earthquake caused by The Industrial Revolution shook apart the adult community–their syllabus of adulthood –leaving them without explicit examples of appropriate adult behavior to watch, reflect upon, simulate and copy.
As you can see, this leaves them with a gap in their ability to make executive function decisions which had guided them through puberty and early adolescence since the beginning of our species. Why is this important? Because it erupted into an increase in juvenile crime: Boston, for example, 1579 arrests in 1885, 4596 in 1904. Crime was measurable: per 100,000 population in 1895, 395; 1904, 766.
Less measurable, destructive behavior among adolescents began to seep into the lives of more and more families. What was it that until this revolution had protected our youth from anything more dangerous than the simple risk taking that evolution had selected for and conserved? What was the mechanism that translated watching and imitating appropriate adult behavior into a safe landing in adolescence?
We’ve all heard the advice, “set a good example for your kids”; most have heard about, “that little voice in the back of my head”; some have read Wordsworth’s sentence he used in a poem about watching the rainbow, “The child is father of the man”; my update The child is parent of the adult.
Enter the cerebellum, nestled below the occipital lobe of the cerebral cortex at the back of the head, likely home to all the above. Cerebellum takes up only ten percent of the brain’s total volume, yet holds between 70 and 80 percent of its 80-100 billion neurons. That should be some indication of its importance.
Jeremy Schmahmann teaches at Harvard and heads the Ataxia Department at Massachusetts General Hospital:
I quote from a 2019 paper titled The Cerebellum and Cognition. He authored a book of the same title in 1997. “For almost 200 years the cerebellum has been regarded as engaged only in motor control. What it does to sensorimotor and vestibular control, it does to cognition, emotion, and autonomic function….the cerebellum maintains behavior around a homeostatic baseline, automatically without conscious awareness, informed by implicit learning, and performed according to context.”
“Automatically without conscious awareness” is the result of what are called internal models–copies of mental models of sensory processing in the cerebral cortex of the child, transferred to the cerebellar cortex where they are collected and stored, eventually to implicitly influence adolescent behavior.
In my correspondence with one of the leading cerebellum research scholars, Larry Vandervert, he replied to an email with the quote below commenting that it updates our understanding of the role of the cerebellum, even suggesting that I place it following the Schmahmann quote.
“Specifically, Van Overwalle, Manto, Leggio and Delgado-Garcia (2019) hypothesized how the cerebellum contributes to the process of making what is learned in such autobiographical knowledge automatic and intuitive:
We hypothesize that the cerebellum acts as a “forward controller” of social, self-action and interaction sequences. We hypothesize that the cerebellum predicts how actions by the self and other people will be executed, what our most likely responses are to these actions, and what the typical sequence of these actions is. This function of forward controller allows people to anticipate, predict and understand actions by the self or other persons and their consequences for the self, to automatize these inferences for intuitive and rapid execution [italics added], and to instantly detect disruptions in action sequences. These are important social functions. Consequently, if neurological disorders affect the cerebellum, detrimental effects on social functionality might be found, especially on more complex and abstract social cognitive processes. The cerebellum would be a “forward controller” that not only constructs and predicts motor sequences, but also takes part in the construction of internal models that support social and self-cognition. In this respect, the cerebellum crucially adds to the fluent understanding of planned and observed social inter-actions and contributes to sequencing mechanisms that organize autobiographical knowledge. (p. 35)
Van Overwalle F, Manto M, Leggio M, Delgado-García J. The sequencing process generated by the cerebellum crucially contributes to social interactions. Medical Hypotheses. 2019;128: 10.1016/j.mehy.2019.05.014.
Vandervert summarizes: “the cerebellum orchestrates the social self (autobiographical self) by which the person (young student) comes to know themselves (the good self and/or the bad self) in automatic cognitive ways and in their automatic responses to everyday situations.”
Leonard Koziol et al, in a 2011 paper titled From Movement to Thought: Executive Function, Embodied Cognition, and the Cerebellum. “Therefore a cerebellar internal model consists of all the dynamic sensory and motor processes necessary to perform a movement or behavior…The cerebellum learns through practice to perform operations faster and more accurately, which explains how a person is able to move skillfully and automatically after repeated practice.”
Thus it was the cerebellum, copying, accumulating, and inventorying for future use the imitating activities–“repeated practice”–of the child observing the adult community, that enabled our ancestral children to ”move skillfully and automatically” through puberty and early adolescence absent the destructive behavior plaguing our teenagers.
Not surprising, Masao Ito, who for more than fifty years studied and made a computational model of the cerebellum described it as “A brain for an implicit self.”
For any of you who would like to pursue learning more about the cerebellum, I highly recommend the writings of Larry Vandervert, a retired college neuroscientist, now in private practice. He summarizes current, and past, research, then makes and writes about his own inferences that elegantly educate the reader.
You will read about the cerebellum’s role in sequence detection, leading to the phonological loop in working memory, then cause and effect, and problem solving and tool making, paving the way for our species’ evolution of culture and innovation; about context dependent internal models, while learning a skill and context independent internal models, having learned that skill. You will learn that when we have a problem to solve, and apply deep thinking to it, cerebellum blends internal models from its vast inventory of the past, sends them to the forebrain where eventually, intuition, insight, and creativity flash across the cortices. He teaches when he writes. Take advantage of learning from him.
Another excellent source is Christopher Bergland, author of The Athlete’s Way, writing superbly on a Psychology Today blog.
Applying implications of what we have learned about cerebellum to the eradication of destructive adolescent behavior as it applies to automobile accidents, using auto- simulators, we will begin driving lessons for youngsters at age 9 in fourth grade. By the time they receive their driving license at age 16, there will have been deposited in the cerebellum, thousands of internal models of proper and safe driving, which will prompt proper and safe driving by teenagers, making decisions automatically influenced by internal models from below the level of their conscious awareness. Having received the same training, peers will no longer goad and taunt destructive behavior. (The investment in auto-simulators will be repaid by money no longer spent on teen auto accidents, and should go first where they are needed the most).)
Metal-ripping, glass-shattering, blood- splattering, dream-squashing, life-taking automobile accidents will diminish to being strictly accidental. Risky behavior will become what evolution selected for and conserved, the means to discover one’s place in the hierarchy of the community plus, more importantly, attract and select a mate in order to pass one’s genes onto the next generation.
On another note: long lists of advice, currently necessary, given to teachers and parents by neuro-psychologists such as Lawrence Steinberg, imply a blank spot in executive function of the developing child. Defying common sense, it also implies that evolution would abandon young people during probably the most important stage of their lives. The lists, however wise, are feeble substitute for the missing internal models in the developing teenager’s cerebellum, normally acquired from the once stable child’s adult community, and intended to provide the protection of implicit persuasion guiding executive function decisions while acquiring his/her own.
My book, The Syllabus of Adulthood, will include chapters, each stating a different destructive behavior, such as unwanted pregnancy, for example, with a solution that involves recommended changes in elementary school. Changes that will begin building desirable internal models in the cerebellum that will, in this case, unconsciously discourage unprotected sexual activity during adolescence.
Too, I have devised a system which will determine students’ aptitudes and most likely interests by the time they are 16. Aptitudes stabilize at age 14. It involves viewing career videos; writing their impression and reading it to the class; and in later grades reporting it to the class without prompts, getting them comfortable towards public speaking.
Professionals will design the videos, including an expert in what new careers will be 50 years from now. By sixth grade, a teacher will have a good idea which videos to show which student. Beginning in sixth grade students will go to library and view only those their teacher has selected. The end result will leave students exiting the cocoon of adolescence for that first glimpse in Jeffrey Arnett’s brilliantly illuminated mirror of “Emerging Adulthood” (Second edition, Oxford University, 2015), boasting a greater confidence than they have now of what the future holds, including selecting a major in college.
A friend I met on the internet, Kathryn Asbury, co-author of G is For Genes, who teaches at York College in England, after discussing my system with her, asked her class of college students if they would have benefited from such a program. They all raised their hands.
To repeat: The Industrial Revolution shook apart the child’s syllabus of adulthood from which to watch, reflect, simulate, and copy appropriate habits, tasks, skills, and behavior. Fathers, some mothers, older sibling, aunts, uncles answered job demands from industry, leaving children, in too many instances, mostly in working families, to fend for themselves.
A substitute for parental absence was and is needed to prepare them for puberty and adolescence. One that will give them explicit examples they no longer see in the absent adult community, that copy as internal models in the cerebellum, providing, implicit, unconscious automatic persuasion, effecting appropriate behavior in adolescence.
That substitute is public education. We need to add programs providing protective cerebellar internal models in elementary school as adjunct to currently taught traits, such as honesty, civility, personal responsibility, patriotism, courage, obedience, empathy, that, too often, no matter how well learned, tragically, still leave students vulnerable to the predators of destructive adolescent behavior.
We need these traits, but we also need what I call the skills of adulthood, skills needed in order to apply them when making appropriate adult decisions. Teaching driving lessons in fourth grade is the teaching of a skill of adulthood. Being able to apply personal responsibility in not getting pregnant is a skill of adulthood. Having the courage to admit addiction and seeking help is a skill of adulthood.
Utilizing what we have learned about the cerebellum in curbing destructive adolescent behavior provides me the answer to my question: Can we do anything to curb it? That answer is yes. I hope you will agree.
Darrell Moss
Moses Lake, Washington

Good morning Diane and everyone,
I looked on my calendar but it doesn’t say it’s Halloween today! Some of this is truly FRIGHTENING! Good Gods!
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I thought it was an April Fool”s article when I started reading. This really is a frightening word salad of bunk.
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Yes. Please see my comment below.
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Also read “Brainstorm” by Dan Siegel
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Brain training sounds like the US version of the Chinese reeducation camps. It assumes young people are empty vessels into which we can pour improved “executive functioning.” Students are not static vessels. They live with families and in societies that are dynamic and often chaotic. There are many social and economic forces that also have an impact on how young people develop. Far more important than any behavioral training, young people long to be heard, cared for and loved in order to develop into caring, competent adults. Moreover, schools are not the solution to every identified problem in society. We need to stop dumping every societal issue with dubious solutions on the lap of public schools. Public schools are currently far too busy fending off the equally dubious, greedy “solution” of privatization that has been foisted upon them.
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Interesting ideas.
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Who is Darrell Moss?
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I am a 92 year old, married 61 years when my wife died 7 years ago; we raised 5 wonderful adults. Youngest son Jason was lead guitar for a band called Cherry Poppin’ Daddies for their 1999 multi-platinum hit Zoot Suit Riot. Two granddaughters are professional writers.
I lettered in all four sports in high school. Captain of baseball team President of Thespians, President of Senior class, King at Senior Prom.
At 20 years of age, I was an office manager for National Biscuit Company in Seattle. Sights set higher found me an intern to be a CPA, working in the Smith Tower in Seattle, tallest building West of Mississippi in 1951. Korean War interrupted everything, and not only changed my goals in life, but my view of the world.
Used GI Bill to get BA in Philosophy from Chico State in California, then two years of graduate work in Philosophy at University of Kansas.
Having our fifth child while in Kansas, I abandoned my dream of teaching, promising my children would not grow up in the poverty I had in the great depression.
Spent career in construction, carpenter building superintendent, and builder.
Always attended school board meetings, was Chairman of Florida Education and Research Development FERD in Martin county in 1974, the year I ran the Boston Marathon.
As I became more and more aware of tragic incidents of destructive adolescent behavior, I promised I would do everything I could to help stop it.
Studying Executive Function development, I became aware of research in cerebellum, saw its application to elementary education, leading to what I am sure is an elementary school that more accurately reflects the world introduced to us by the Industrial Revolution than it does now.
Hence this paper.
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It’s interesting stuff, I enjoyed reading it.
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Thank you for your response! I understand your major concern about the destructive behaviors, but I can’t wrap my head around your “why” it happens or “how” to rectify the matter. Everyone is a work in progress….especially teens and young adults.
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Lisa, I’m not sure just how to position this answer so as to appear directly below your request.
The work in progress of teen and young adults is effected mightily by the internal models of executive function put there when the child observed parents or other members of the adult community exercising components of executive function while making responsible decisions.
The resulting internal models in the cerebellum form unconscious executive function responses, influencing the teen and young adult below the level of their conscious awareness. while they are struggling through their own work in progress.
In other words, those decisions they saw the adults make, they are using, not knowing it, to make what I would call protective decisions from having to rely strictly on trial and error.
Of course there is a lot of trial and error as they progress in their own development, but it is cushioned by those unconscious internal models from their childhood.
Darrell
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My gosh, I forgot the most important point you asked about: the why?It is if those good internal models are not placed in the child’s cerebellum, if there is no stable adult community, that’s when as a result of strict trial and error, without the unconscious guidance of good internal models, destructive behavior creeps in.
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The unconscious needs to be made CONSCIOUS before it can be dealt with. So, HOW does one make the UNCONSCIOUS CONSCIOUS?????
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I found it interesting that the article proposed simulated driving experience for 9 year olds. That was what all farmers had growing up. At 8, it became necessary that I steer the truck or tractor so that my older brother could join my father picking up hay bales. As I got older, tractor driving took a huge part of my workday, and clutches and gear shifts consumed my thoughts like nothing else has since. I learned that a person could back a four wheel trailer if and only if his uncle was not watching. If Uncle Ed was there, forget it.
The author is on to something when it comes to understanding the specific risk of automobile operations. Beyond that, maybe he digresses.
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I have been learning about the adolescent brain’s development for decades. When I was still teaching way back in the 1980s. I first studied how the brain learns and remembers what it learns (or doesn’t remember what it was taught) and eventually, years later, I read about the adolescent brain’s development from a child, to an adolescent teen, to the adult brain at about age 25.
What I was learning throughout those years also influenced how I planned the lessons I was teaching in my English classes. What I have learned about the adolescent brain since I retired in 2005 would have also influenced how I managed my classes if I was still teaching.
It is apparent to me that teens in middle and high school need teachers that use tough love ( do not confuse “tough love” with the abusive methods that bully children that we see used in too many charter schools) as part of their teaching strategy/methods.
National Geographic Magazine has published more than one easy-to-understand piece about the adolescent brain and why most if not all adolescents do the things they do that might get them injured, in trouble, or dead.
What we now know about the adolescent brain between the ages of 12 to 25 also helps explain why the average soldier that ends up in uniform and off to war is in that age group.
That also probably explains why I joined the U.S. Marines out of high school and ended up in Vietnam being shot at. I was still in my early 20s before my brain had finished developing but being shot at by snipers I couldn’t see made me pay more attention to what I was doing with my life. I wouldn’t recommend that experience for anyone, except Traitor Trump (TT) and anyone that still supports that freak. In TT’s case, I’d root for the snipers not to miss as they missed hitting me.
https://www.nationalgeographic.org/media/teenage-brain-and-behavior/
https://www.nationalgeographic.com/magazine/article/beautiful-brains
https://www.breakingthecycles.com/blog/2011/10/06/national-geographics-october-2011-article-the-new-science-of-the-teenage-brain/
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I agree that lots of kids need guidance but I think that, from my experience of 15 years in urban schools,it’s really hard to guide kids with any consistency because so many of them have vastly different home experiences and many teachers range tremendously in how they handle classroom management.
Honestly quite a few teachers on my campus just gave up and let kids do whatever they wanted. There’s so many diverse expectations nowadays to handle all the kids differently depending on what their IEP states, what their childhood trauma issues are, and it’s hard to find any way to come up with a behavior management system that works well and helps kids with simple things like “let’s all keep the class organized” or “please don’t talk when I’m talking so all can hear me.”
I know I’m going to probably have someone chime in and say that their classroom behavior management is so perfect that all kids are 100% learning to handle and improve their executive functioning, but I haven’t seen that. My personal wish would be that schools came up with a trauma informed school wide plan for helping kids develop executive functioning rather than teachers just being tasked. It needs to be cohesive and school wide.
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Whatever happened to real peer reviewed research and pilot programs before unleashing something new on students? Educational change should be grounded in evidence before we waste students’ time on anything new. When did marketing or endorsement alone have credible value?
As you point out, students are complex social, emotional and cognitive beings. This executive training sounds like a simplistic, behavioral suggestion to a complex issue. Our young people are not Madison Avenue’s guinea pigs. We should stop treating our youth as though that is all they are.
Trauma is a big issue for some students, and some districts in cities have programs that support traumatized students. Young people from Afghanistan that will be entering our schools may very well require lots of support from trained professionals.
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Yes, this executive training sounds like a simplistic, beh I’d say cognitivist instead of behavioral suggestion to a complex issue. Actually, I’d say cognitivist instead of behaviorist. Please see my comment below.
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Whew, I didn’t edit, did I. Sorry, doing three things at once.
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I have to confess that my eyes began to glaze over and I have to go back and read the entire post thoroughly, but it struck me immediately that probably the major difference between the 1800s and now is that there was no such thing as a teenager. As Roy indicated children and teens became contributing members of the family unit early on. Farm children are still very much aware of their importance to the farm way of life. They were in training for adult roles almost from the time they could walk. I am not advocating a return to the good old days, but I wonder if there is a better way of introducing kids to adulthood. I’m sure the range of experiences is extensive, so I doubt there is a master plan that will satisfy all comers. I’m with Lloyd on not recommending the military as the way to successfully introduce everyone to adulthood, but it sure does make you grow up fast…or not at all.
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Thanks for the mention. I remember the 1800s. Laughter
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More than my eyes were glazed over when I wrote that! I did make you seem to be rather elderly.
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This is some dangerously specious reasoning. If I were on vacation, I’d spend a day debunking it, but I’ll just do the best I can with limited time this evening. I appreciate the good intentions, but good intentions mixed with pseudoscience place people in just as perilous a position as do evil intentions mixed with pseudoscience. Neuroscientists are not scientists. Period. One who is not an MD has no business hypothesizing or theorizing about the human brain, the holy grail of science.
Neurologists are scientists. Neuroscientists are not. Neuroscience is as sensible as Bill Gates trying to ponder education or Elon Musk trying to understand space travel. It’s junk. Twenty years ago, a company called Sopris West tried to convince me that it’s reading program worked by claiming that, since cutting the corpus callosum caused a syndrome in which the two hemispheres of the brain were unable to communicate, test prep that appealed to Broca’s and Wernicke’s areas of the left hemisphere was effective. Sigh. Not even close. But the school district bought it.
The cerebellum helps you carry out coordinated physical movements, like standing and walking. We still have no clear idea of how the brain works, whether structures like the cerebellum act in modularity or holism with the other structures of the brain. How much connectivity exists is still The big debate among neurologists. Additionally, modularity and holism are not mutually exclusive. As my favorite old professor used to say, “The brain is a dynamic structure that employs both ‘modes’ in a marvelously complex interplay.” To claim that the cerebellum is so holistically connected to the cortex as to function as the controller of social interactions, as opposed to controlling standing and walking, is so wrong it just, well, it makes my brain hurt.
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The sad truth for me is that my brain does actually hurt. I have had fibromyalgia for many years. Recently, this condition has morphed into a rare condition called idiopathic intracranial hypertension. The brain is under pressure and so is the retina in the eye. It is caused by excess spinal fluid. Unfortunately, there are only a handful of neurologists in the country that can effectively treat this condition. I am luckier than many that get constant migraines. I just get a dull throbbing headache that builds during the day.
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So sorry to hear that, retired teacher.
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I don’t understand your scoff at neuroscientists. Neurology is a specialized branch of medicine/medical practice. Neuroscience is the scientific study of the nervous system. Thomas Sudhof, e.g., a neuroscientist [and an MD as well] pioneered the field of molecular neuroscience for synaptic transmission, and won the Nobel in 2013.
I checked out Vandervert, the first cite by Moss. Yes this stuff is theory, but it’s published by NIH so presumably peer-reviewed; he’s not some quack. Just another scientist in the overlapping fields of medicine, psychology, neurology, molecular bio, genetics, et al, who exchange and comment on each others’ research and hypotheses.
Trying to apply emerging theory and knowledge of how the brain works to pedagogy in the public school classroom– yes a step way too far, taken not by scientists but by amateurs, as well as ed-industry folks who have a silver bullet to sell.
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I have nothing against neuroscientists.. I just think we need to vet any new adoption as having real value before a program is started.. The process should be research supported starting with a small pilot program. If the trial is positive, then school districts can adopt it on a larger scale. A lot of things marketed are based on junk science. We need to base decisions on real results.
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I think the problem in more recent years has been the push to monetize theory with little basis in actual practice. Education has become the new cash cow although it has been evident probably for at least a couple of decades. People are attracted to new shiny objects.
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I was rebutting LCT’s remarks on neuroscientists. Completely agree on vetting new investments before imposing them willy-nilly on everybody– or even one district, as in the hilariously absurd reading program LCT’s admin adopted. It’s the bane of public schools, and has been since before A Nation at Risk puffed a new blast of hot air into the sails [/sales] of flagship Ed Reform. If I’m not mistaken Diane wrote a whole book on the subject.
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Three words (because I’m pressed for time with school reopening), Betsy DeVos, Neurocore.
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Also, Dr Sudhof is a neurologist. He’s a licensed medical practitioner.
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Also, sorry for the autocorrect error in my first comment.
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Let’s skip Moss’s recommendations for pubschs for the moment. There are a couple of deep thoughts here that deserve further pondering. Just addressing here the first one that hit me.
I’ve never heard before the notion that the Industrial Revolution severed the child from a millennias-old pattern of modeling adult behavior. I suspect there’s a large grain of truth there. The very notion of ‘adolescence’ [& then ‘pre-adolescence’] as a no-man’s land between end of primary school and entering the workforce grew out of that cleavage. In the Middle Ages as denser civilization developed, and tech advance led to a midpoint between agriculture and industry—the period of craft guilds & the beginnings of middle class—children began to have options beyond doing exactly as parents modeled, but the apprenticeship involved modeling adult work just as before (substituting master craftsmen for parents).
The Industrial Age brought a form of work so demanding & stressful it would be gradually be replaced by machines wherever possible, & soon led to child labor laws. For 100 yrs, children have been the job of the community to care for until sturdy enough participate in the labor force, while parents work outside the home. Hence; pre-adolescence, adolescence.
What didn’t/ doesn’t work? Economically—once you get beyond the 3 R’s & some basics of science and history [I,e, until age 12-ish]—school, at least for the non-professional masses—has been about babysitting for the laborers. The model is just… wrong. We’ve filled in with academics and more academics, but that has led to an imbalance that doesn’t match the society’s needs.
Yes: children have been cut off from being able to model & grow into the adult world in an organic fashion. They don’t even see their parents work, let alone accompany them and participate as helpers for part of their day/ year, with other parts of the day/ year devoted to schooling and play, as in old times. Their main source of adult modeling age 5-17—school—teaches them group socialization & teamwork [an adequate replacement for old-time family work experience], but beyond that nothing much other than… how to teach. That’s fine for maybe 20% of them. Another 40% benefits from the academics for other future professions, but the professional training is put off at least 5 yrs beyond what’s necessary [i.e., they could be training and learning on the job]. The remaining 40% could be training and getting job-related courses in the work force from the time they’re 14-16.
I suppose that sounds radical [or regressive]. Here we often excoriate the attempt to convert education to job training. We’re right about that. Schooling needs to last at least as long as it takes to teach oneself to learn. But does that really need to take from age 5-21 or 24 or 26? We’ve created a society where young adulthood is pushed way past the bounds of hormonal demands to procreate, work for more immediate gain [not 10 yrs off], take responsibility for our finances, innovate and change the world with the idealism and stamina of youth. Hence, those drives often end up [Moss’s concern] being channeled into anti-social and/or self-destructive risk-taking or worse.
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Mr Moss, I submit for your consideration that adolescent car accidents– though they triggered your interest in this subject—are not, and perhaps not even any longer—the point. Adolescent excessive risk-taking and self-destructive behavior is your subject.
While driving-simulators in grade school might have once been a thought, they are hardly needed today. My kids even a couple of decades+ yrs ago [when 8-12] were ‘driving’ scarily-realistic speed courses daily, with unpredictable obstacles, complete with gear-shifting via joysticks, courtesy of video games. They became very good and cautious drivers, perhaps partly due to that, but more likely because they were raised in densely-populated all-driving NJ, which gives one swift, painful, early lessons in such things—blessedly most often limited to expensive fender-benders. Reckless, risk-takey driving was (& still is) more a thing in the less-populated hinterlands where I was raised: one can get away with chicken-games and texting while speeding and worse (while one’s luck holds).
But I take your point. You’ve highlighted a rather huge social problem that has long been with us, and is becoming worse. In my opinion it cannot be addressed through public school curriculum. IF we are able to return to a society where there are ample funds for public goods, it can be partially addressed through tighter communities with youth-focused activities in afternoons/ evenings. IF we are able to become again a society with plentiful job opportunities/ upward mobility for lower-income/ working classes, hopeful prospects would be game-changing for many youth.
But it will be an upward battle, big-picture-wise. We have created a class of people—adolescents– who are neither children nor adults— people who were for millennia considered young adults and went off to fight, or join family businesses and/or start families. We have given them very little in the way of channeling these natural drives. Sadly, modern society makes these drives ‘age-inappropriate.’
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Driving video games are hardly representative of actual driving experiences. I too grew up playing driving video games. I remember Turbo, where on the sharpest curve, if you literally spun the wheel at just the right time, you could fly around it without slowing down. Problem with video games is that the steering wheel is not actually connected to a thousand pounds of mechanical equipment. And, of course, real steering wheels don’t actually spin.
Driving simulators aren’t perfect, but they do strive for much more realistic driving conditions and the feel of an actual car. I think it’s a great idea to start young children on them to develop as close as possible realistic experiences and responses.
The whole part about guiding kids into career paths by age 16, OTOH, is absolutely horrifying.
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Driving simulators have undoubtedly come a long long way since the things we stood at in driver’s ed 1966, perhaps they are a good idea.
Guiding kids into career paths by age 16 – in the world we live in – is not really anything I’m recommending, tho it probably sounded that way. I have no idea what to recommend, just noting that over the last century we’ve created a problem that we don’t seem to be solving in any way that makes sense, either economically or psychologically. I will say that the atmosphere in the county voc-ed high school I toured in late ’90’s was really refreshing compared to the tense halls of our competitive hothouse of a local hisch. Kids were busy and happy to be there. Something right was going on.
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it is not my intention to guide them into career paths. When I called the largest aptitude testing company in the country, and was told that the average age of their clients is 28, I was appalled. It is absolutely disgraceful that 14 years after aptitudes stabilize, persons still do not know what their aptitudes are.
As an example of the value of knowing their aptitudes, major in college will be selected much more confidently. Millions of dollars will be saved not to mention the emotional anguish, in not having to switch majors, some three times,
Auto simulators would be a great invitation for kids to enjoy coming to school. All
components of executive function would be experienced and learned.
I answered you here, but my intent is to write one answer to all comments as soon as they are all posted.
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Thank you for this post. So much of what you expressed was reflected in a graduate course I recently took.
Finding purpose and developing identity is important during adolescences…. and I agree that the stage is set early than adolescence. There have been studies that show risk taking is a part of adolescents but it is more extreme and manifests itself differently depending on country and culture and the US has more of certain risk taking behaviors. This is connected to culture and role models.
I found it really interesting that there was a shift after the industrial revolution. The mentoring and modeling (that supports executive functioning) was less available as more adults were working. This is something we can’t deny. Children need good role models all around.
Your research is really interesting. And as far as driving – I wonder if we are allowing teens on the road too early before their brains are ready for the responsibility.
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A few questions and comments.
First, I abhor any reduction of the psyche and consciousness to the physical matter of the brain. We do not and cannot know the exact “creativity flash across the cortices” that gives rise to a specific idea.
WHO will decide what constitutes “destructive behavior?” For example, some of my middle school teachers were concerned that I preferred to read by myself rather than interact with other students at lunch. How far are we willing to take this? Will it come to discouraging behaviors “we” or “they” just don’t like?
WHO will design the “internal models” that will “unconsciously discourage” the behaviors that SOMEONE deems undesirable? Would you like to know the people who are tinkering with your child’s unconscious? Or are you happy to just leave it to the “experts?”
The idea that aptitude and interests are fixed by the age of 14 doesn’t seem to mesh with my experience. At 53, I have interests that I couldn’t have even imagined at at 14. The more insidious idea is that an institution (school, government…) would use whatever “data” they get to influence the career choice of a child is truly frightening. As a teacher, there is no way that I could decide by 6th grade what interests and aptitudes a student has and what career he/she would want. And WHY would I want to do that? What is the purpose? If I were a parent and I got a call from a teacher saying he or she knew all the interests and aptitudes of my 6th grade child, I would be horrified. I would be even more horrified if the school was then going to decide how to steer my child into a certain career.
The idea that kids are going to be able to make the “good” decisions that adults make is also flawed. When I look around (and at myself), I see a lot of adults making poor decisions and acting in self-destructive ways. It’s certainly not limited to kids. The actual material of the brain and how it functions is only one aspect of decision making. Tinkering by “experts” with the cerebellum is not going to eradicate self-destructive and poor decision making. It’s not going to turn adolescents into adults.
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I read the post much differently than you did.
I think you are stretching his point to say that a computer would make a decision and calls would be made home by a teacher of 12 year old children – and the teacher would declare they “know” what career path a child will take. I did not hear that in this post. Your interpretation seems personal.
I am reading that children need some guidance, modeling and mentoring to begin the process of tapping into interests and purpose – and this needs to be intentional rather than just thinking it’s going to magically happen. Without that purpose and building identity …. they are left afloat and potentially dabbling in more risky behavior.
Executive function skills (planning, control etc) can be impacted by modeling, activities, routines, seeing strong examples.. …. it’s not “tinkering in the cerebellum.”
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Hi beachteach,
I was commenting on this quote,
“Professionals will design the videos, including an expert in what new careers will be 50 years from now. By sixth grade, a teacher will have a good idea which videos to show which student. Beginning in sixth grade students will go to library and view only those their teacher has selected. The end result will leave students exiting the cocoon of adolescence…”
So, to me, it sounds like teachers and school officials will be deciding these things. I didn’t mean to say that a computer would be doing it but is that really such a big stretch? I don’t think so!
I was also commenting on this quote,
“Changes that will begin building desirable internal models in the cerebellum that will, in this case, unconsciously discourage unprotected sexual activity during adolescence.”
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In this post, I hear someone thinking of a solution, out of concern for a real problem – for a segment of adolescents adrift and needing more support to form sense of purpose and positive identity. His concerns are real.
Agreed – part of the solution to the problem is a bit ‘out there’ and not realistic – as I read more closely. But to come up with solutions to real problems …. inventive minds will create models like in your quotes. Negative video models are impacting executive functioning. Why not develop positive video models.
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his concerns are valid.
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This is such an important topic right now, teens are going to have to navigate an increasingly risky world.
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Agreed.
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First, let me say I am not an educator. At age 14 in 9th grade I took an aptitude test. The #1 career field that popped up for me was Nursing. I scoffed at the notion as I had little interest in science and no interest in math or chemistry. Fast forward to age 25, when my oldest infant was hospitalized twice and I spent 4-5 days living in his hospital room I was able to observe the nurses in action. I was hooked and slowly worked through the pre-requisites and graduated from a nursing program and became an RN in 1993. If I’d had a chance to job shadow nurses in a hospital at age 14 or 15, perhaps that interest would have been piqued earlier. To test for aptitude at an early age, augmented by projects like job shadowing or interning may help many kids find their career choices before their college years or later. Full disclosure, I am Darrell’s oldest daughter, age 63.
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Yes – Less time spent sitting at desks – being tested and evaluated to see if students met a “standard” and a lot more getting out in the community and learning in the field.
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I also took an aptitude test at about age 14 (I’m now 57). I wanted to be an astronomer but “the test” said that I was better suited to be an English teacher or editor at a newspaper. Neither was something that I wanted to pursue (and this has never changed!) That test went as far as to tell me that my math skills were not good enough to pursue a career in the sciences. Math certainly wasn’t my best subject, but what an awful thing to tell a teen. That stuck in my head for the remainder of my K-12 years and it also drove what classes were chosen for me throughout HS. I don’t have fond memories of HS years.
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I promised you a response, Darrell, and here is a first go at one. You raise a lot of interesting and important issues that one could write whole libraries about, so I am afraid that my comments will be insufficient, but here goes.
First, while I share your interest in research on the brain, I am skeptical of broad attributions of general human faculties to particular locations in the brain–oh, the hippocampus takes care of memory; Warnicke’s and Broca’s, language; and so on. Increasingly, I’ve read, neuroscientists are finding that human faculties tend to involve activity dispersed across the brain. I’m no expert, but I don’t think that the cerebellum can be described as the repository of automatized, modeled behavior in general. I play classical and jazz guitar. When I have learned a piece to the point of its becoming automatic for me, is it located there? I doubt it. I suspect that lots of areas of the brain are involved. And at any rate, I don’t think your argument really needs all this talk about building something in a particular area of the brain. All that’s important for your argument is the undeniable fact that a LOT of human behavior is not consciously learned or consciously thought about when performed. Linguists make the distinction between learning, which is conscious, and acquisition, which is unconscious and automatic. People used to think that grammars were learned by explicit instruction and conscious application of known rules. Nope. Almost all of the grammar of a language is intuited, unconsciously acquired and totally unconsciously applied in the process of making statements.
Second, you make a very interesting suggestion with regard to the effect that the Industrial Revolution had on the making of adults. Yes, in the old days, young people worked alongside adults and learned directly from them, and yes, that changed when people started going off to the factories or the mines. However, I don’t think we actually have evidence of young people being less impulsive and reckless prior to the Industrial Age or more impulsive now. Consider Romeo and Juliet, the major theme of which is the rashness, the impulsiveness, of youth. Or this from “The Winter’s Tale”: “I would there were no age between sixteen and three-and-twenty, or that youth would sleep out the rest; for there is nothing in the between but getting wenches with child, wronging the ancientry, stealing, fighting.”
Third, I taught high-school kids, and I know for a fact that they are impulsive and reckless, that they often give little thought to the consequences of their actions, that they often act without thinking, that they often have no idea why they did something or said something, that they often completely surprise their elders with impulsive or reckless behavior, that it is a wonder that so many survive this period. High-school kids are VERY WEIRD. LOL. They can turn on a dime emotionally. They commonly experience a LOT of extremes. They often are in their head and oblivious. They will do insane things because in order to get people’s attention or to be accepted or to look cool or whatever. But again, I’m not sure that this is anything new. Youth has always been considered brash.
Fourth, yes, creating automaticity through practice is important in many areas, for many kinds of learning. This is not generally appreciated as much as it should be. Unfortunately, lots of folks who think and write about education tend to think that everything is best learned/acquired in the same way. Definitely not. The idea of having kids do driving simulation early on makes sense to me. Make some behaviors automatic. Whether this will prevent them from doing stupid teenagerly things later on–I have no idea, perhaps to some degree. I remember once when I was sixteen, driving down to a lake’s edge with a carload of my friends at night. My one friend wanted me to drive out onto the lake, which was covered with ice and was FURIOUS at me when I wouldn’t do it. There other friends were DEBATING it. I got out of the car and put my foot through the ice near the lake’s edge to show him how stupid that was. The same boy blew up his neighbor’s mailbox with a pipe bomb, which threw shrapnel into the garage door. He also gave LSD to his dog. But he was a pretty average high-school kid. They are all nuts. LOL.
Fifth, I do think that there should be more sharing with kids what various adult jobs/careers are like. No kid should graduate without being familiar with the Occupational Outlook Handbook. I agree that kids want more of this. My high-school students were FURIOUS that they weren’t being given more News You Can Use instruction–how to do taxes, how to interview, how to buy a house, how to budget, blah, blah, blah. Really, they were quite upset about this and viewed it as a major failure on the part of their schools.
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It horrifies me, for example, that most people in the United States go through 20 years of schooling and but have NO IDEA what things they would have to do in order to start and run a small business. This is the kind of thing that should be a standard part of the high-school curriculum. I’ve done mini courses on this for a number of friends who decided they wanted to get entrepreneurial. LOL.
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I had a friend who proudly showed me a fancy “book of incorporation papers” that he had gotten from a company that gave him some tips on making a fortune in real estate and incorporated a company for him, all for the low, low price of ten thousand dollars. It wasn’t Trump University, but it was some other such scam.
I explained to him that he could have taken care of incorporating his company himself for about $200 and that it would have taken about ten minutes of his time. In the state of Florida, for example, there is a $35 corporate filing fee and a $150 annual fee. Getting an EIN from the feds is free.
So, he paid $9,965 more than he had to. LOL.
Ofc, he could have had a lawyer do this. For about $700, typically, including things like boilerplate bylaws.
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I’m not sure I see the value in making running a small business a standard part of the high school curriculum. If it was added into consumer ed, possibly, but since the info is highly unlikely to be used immediately, I seriously doubt it would be of much value other than to remind someone who decides years later to start a small business that they damn well need to be better prepared.
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Recent stat: 62 percent of Americans say that they would like to run a small business someday.
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As the wife of a small business owner, they don’t know what they are wishing for. Perhaps that is a reason “to clue them in” in high school. 62% of Americans is a rather vague stat. I seriously doubt they were polling HS students or perhaps they were only polling HS students. Then again, if the failure rate of small businesses is any indication, perhaps entrepreneurship should be a standard part/unit of HS curriculum. I still would question the impact of such a unit without it being embedded in a really solid consumer/career ed program.
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I’ve run business off and on throughout my life, and many of my friends have. Yes, a lot fail. But a lot do just fine, and this is a very common dream. And it’s an option that people should have, I think, in their pocket.
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Lots of people starting small web-based businesses these days–selling their crafts on Ebay, selling kombucha-making supplies, whatever. Again, it’s a good skill to have in one’s pocket, to be pulled out if and when. . . .
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Yeah, the times they are a-changing.
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And this gives people a powerful option, especially in the era of the gig economy. Should also teach the kids about doing 1099 work and what they have to do there, IMHO.
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I’m not talking about a complete course in entrepreneurship, speduktr. I’m simply talking about someone at some point going through with kids the steps they have to take in order to start a business, and a few guidelines for when it makes sense to do so.
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So a unit in a consumer ed course, which is required in my state. My kids were pleased to have someone teach them the basics of money management, which is more than I got. I got my first checkbook when I went off to college. I didn’t even know that you should save cancelled checks.
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Checks. Those artifacts of the past.
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I still use them occasionally. Much harder to hack.
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Lots of people, across the socioeconomic spectrum, start businesses. Dog walking. Gardening and lawn care. Beauty shop or barber shop. Carpentry services. Online jewelry sales. Online art sales. Lots of people starting online businesses now. Lots chucking it all, moving the country, and starting to, say, raise eggs or lavender for a living. LOL.
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I would be very interested in what proportion of online businesses are actually profitable enough to support their owners reasonably well. Let’s forget the fact that they have to provide their own healthcare, liability insurance, yadda,yadda,yadda. Online businesses have definitely provided an avenue to an expanded audience for some, and perhaps a fair number of people have had to reinvent themselves online to make it thru the pandemic. Remember entrepreneurship has been sold in recent years by big business that doesn’t want the cost of employees. Contract workers are cheaper and easily disposed of. If they get really successful (a small minority) than the big guys just buy them out. The upside of being on your own is being on your own, presumably doing something you want to do.
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Some of these are doubtless side hustles. Some are side hustles that become full time. Some are done for a short time to fill a gap or otherwise meet a short-term need. But again, how many people HAVE THIS DREAM? A lot, in my experience. Gee, you know, what I would really like to do is to start a little [recording studio, body shop, photography business, etc].
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I would guess that a good number of people have fantasized about running their own businesses. A HS unit could provide a bit of a reality check or at least set someone up to know where or how to find the necessary resources if they ever decide to turn the fantasy into reality. I am sure you are familiar with the dread that is sent through the hearts of teachers as the state/ county/school board announces another mandate (without funding) that teachers are almost invariably left to implement. A bit of that old frustration is influencing this old retired special ed teacher. Then again, as an old retired person, I miss the ease of skill/knowledge acquisition provided by public schooling. My cerebellum was too well indoctrinated by the school model of learning.
The idea that building automaticity of movement is a key function of the cerebellum is intriguing but far too simplistic a model to apply to executive functioning. Nor do I find the idea very useful for addressing the issue. As a special ed teacher, executive functioning was a key focus as impulsive, distractible, and inattentive behaviors frequently impacted the learning of my students. Establishing routines was one tool of addressing behaviors that disrupted learning, but assigning that routine making to the cerebellum would not have furthered the process.
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A friend of mine who is an accountant once said to me, “You know, Bob, most of my clients are small businesses, and I can tell you, the ones that do make it generally, well, the person is just making enough to get by. He or she is never going to get rich.” And yes, there are a lot of businesses like that.
Restaurants are particularly iffy. Most fail. Another friend of mine, a banker, told me he wouldn’t lend to restaurants, period, for that reason.
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One minor usage note, Mr. Moss. Consider using the preposition for instead of of in this phrase:
Syllabus for Adulthood
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And thank you, Mr. Moss, for caring enough about this issue to think carefully about it. Lord knows, it’s an important one. Lots of lost kids.
The day my brother graduated from high school, a bunch of his friends asked him to go somewhere with them. My brother had other plans. So, they took off–five of them, in a car. A few miles away, there is a place where the highway curves downward steeply.
The police said that they hit the cliff that bordered that highway at over 100 miles an hour.
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As an aside, bob,
Did you notice my connection to Florida in the short autobiography I wrote above?
I will answer comments on my paper later this afternoon. Thanks to everyone.
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I did, Darrell. But I don’t hold that against you. LOL.
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I am not a teacher and my sole knowledge of adolescent brains is my own recollections and what I see in my kid. You make many interesting observations.
But I am skeptical that things that are developmental can be rushed or changed by some new program.
I have no doubt there can be some new program to address adolescent brain issues, and it will work very well for the adolescents who are at that stage in their development and the ones who aren’t at that stage will remain the same, but the blame for the program failing will be placed on them because people will point to the kids who are already at that point in their development and say “look how well it works”.
What I see for myself is that SOME adolescents are more likely to engage in destructive behavior and other adolescents do not.
But we live in a society where the affluent, privileged adolescents who engage in destructive behavior don’t pay a price for it, and the poverty-stricken adolescents who engage in destructive behavior pay an excessive price.
And – this is most important – if you create a society where many young people see no hope or no future, the destruction and harm caused by the adolescent brain is huge.
Do Sweden and Finland worry about the adolescent brains of their teens? Or is that less of a problem because a strong safety net makes it more likely for those kids to have a softer landing?
Maybe the question is whether teens in countries with little or no safety net are more destructive than teens in countries with a very strong progressive policies whose lives and futures are brighter.
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My reply disappeared so trying again:
I am not a teacher and my sole knowledge of adolescent brains is my own recollections and what I see in my kid. You make many interesting observations.
But I am skeptical that things that are developmental can be rushed or changed by some new program.
I have no doubt there can be some new program to address adolescent brain issues, and it will work very well for the adolescents who are at that stage in their development and the ones who aren’t at that stage will remain the same, but the blame for the program failing will be placed on them because people will point to the kids who are already at that point in their development and say “look how well it works”.
What I see for myself is that SOME adolescents are more likely to engage in destructive behavior and other adolescents do not.
But we live in a society where the affluent, privileged adolescents who engage in destructive behavior don’t pay a price for it, and the poverty-stricken adolescents who engage in destructive behavior pay an excessive price.
And – this is most important – if you create a society where many young people see no hope or no future, the destruction and harm caused by the adolescent brain is huge.
Do Sweden and Finland worry about the adolescent brains of their teens? Or is that less of a problem because a strong safety net makes it more likely for those kids to have a softer landing?
Maybe the question is whether teens in countries with little or no safety net are more destructive than teens in countries with a very strong progressive policies whose lives and futures are brighter.
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I will speak in general terms at first, answering a number of queries, then respond to specific questions, falling outside general discussion.
First, every bit of evidence and the quotes I cite have been peer reviewed. In addition to the quote of Leonard Koziol I cite, he, along with Deborah Budding, both practicing neurologists, wrote a 2009 book called: Subcortical Structures and Cognition. It is one of the first to show that cerebellum is bidirectionally connected to basal ganglia from which it receives motivating reward information to anticipated cerebellar move.
Dr. Schmahmann is an M.D.who in addition to heading the Ataxia Department at Boston General Hospital, teaches at Harvard. Along with being a practicing neurologist, he is one of the most respected neuroscientists in the country, stimulating research all over the globe by research in his own lab involving his ataxia patients.
He and Deepak Pandya wrote “Fiber Pathways of the Brain” which shows an integrated connectivity of the entire brain. Cerebellum is bidirectionally connected to entire Cerebral Cortex, except one small part I forget its name.
When he states in my quotation of him that “What it (cerebellum), (my parenthesis),does to sensorimotor and vestibular control, it does to cognition, emotion, and autonomic function.” you can take it to the bank, so to speak.
Additionally, Masao Ito, preeminent neuroscientist, in his book: The Cerebellum: Brain For an Implicit Self, writes that “cerebellum may be involved in such complex mental actions as having intuition, imagination, hallucination, or delusion.”
Larry Vandervert carries it further to include creativity, weakening in his essay, the “may” be involved.
When Left coast Teacher wrote that he would rather be writing fiction, that’s what he did, not intentionally, but out of an ignorance that still lingers pervasively in thinking of the cerebellum. And yes, neuroscience is a science.
I urge you when considering the importance of the cerebellum to our overall brain health, to not forget that it takes only 10 percent of the volume yet contains 70 -80 billion of the estimated 100 billion brain cells. That is staggering.
Next I will address the concerns of reducing the residence of spirit, soul, poet, and dream residence to its physical features.
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As a newly retired public middle school teacher I spent a 37 year career working with mild learning disabled students (ADHD, deficits in working memory, weak phonological skills etc) I agree that we cannot add more to the curriculum to assist with adulting experiences. We can try to incorporate some experiences for the students but the red tape involved in getting a driving simulator into a classroom would be daunting. It just doesn’t happen like that. Admin is too focused on improving test scores for Reading and Math to deal with preparing kids to drive in a few years. We do not even offer drivers ed in my district, few do. It’s all privatized now. Though I like the idea of a driving simulator for an elective course or fun lunch activity. However, if I may add, as the mother of a very successful 19 year old I made sure I introduced her to activities prior to the prescribed developmental age because I thought if she were to get a “pre intro ” to things like reading a toddler, doing laundry at age 5, backing out of the driveway prior to getting her license, map reading (not google maps) on every trip we took, using public transportation to all the cities we traveled to since age four, developing many hobbies and interests, encouraging an arts and crafts interest for homemade gifts, I thought these activities would all be beneficial to creating neuro pathways for her so when she was ready to learn/use these skills for real, the pathways would be there to build on. I endeavored to do the same with my students but with the time constraints on classroom instruction there was no way I could spend the time on preparing them for skills they will need in the future but instead, we constantly were trying to reach back and teach skills they had missed along the way. Learning gaps for mildly disabled students and all students now after COVID is what keeps them from making these connections to skills they need to learn for their future. I’ve seen my daughter make “safe” decisions based on her early experiences growing up. I provided those experiences of pre-adulting for her, not the school. School supplemented what I taught at home. I stayed two steps behind her as she navigated the subways of Tokyo, London, and Paris, encouraging her and being her safety net. Her peers won’t even get on a local bus/train to meet at the beach. She showed all her friends in her freshman year at college how to ride the bus to town for free. They had to drive there. Those are just examples of things parents can do to help bridge the gap that is mentioned in the article referring to parents needing to be role models for their students to learn from in order to start developing the skills needed to make informed safe decisions as a young adults. Unfortunately, the current generation of parents of teens is seriously lacking the skills to parent. They totally depend on the school to do/teach EVERYTHING for their child. At home 90% of the time is wasted on mindless gaming, or activities that do not support adulting skills that will be needed later. (cooking , cleaning, driving, paying bills) I cannot think of one of my parents even reading an article like this then applying the wisdom to their home life and how they raise their kids. Even some of my parent friends just “gave up” on parenting their kids way too early. Afraid to say NO. I’d rather see parenting classes or at least opportunities for parents to learn about brain development than to ask the school system to pick up the slack. Just as many parents attend a pre natal class for a birth we need to offer and encourage new parents to attend parenting classes after the birth of their child. It’s a society issue not a public school issue. Unsafe teen driving can be addressed by parents providing the simulated driving experiences needed to help kids develop better skills. Parents need to teach their kids by providing many early life experiences as preparation for adulting. It’s called parenting.
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“Unsafe teen driving can be addressed by parents providing the simulated driving experiences needed to help kids develop better skills. Parents need to teach their kids by providing many early life experiences as preparation for adulting. It’s called parenting.”
Regarding the quote above, it’s been going on since 1913, and most efforts by parents have failed.
But what a wonderful argument for my case. Thank you for such a thoughtful response to my paper
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I will be answering it more at length at a later date When you write about parents being more taken up with other issues, mainly, in my experience, flat screen obsession, that brings up another problem I see in the future: flat screen homelessness, in many cases we already have it.
Thank you so much for your response.
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