The Washington Post published a story about a teacher-librarian who launched a community tradition of feeding children and families during the Christmas holidays.
Elementary schoolteacher Turquoise LeJeune Parker was a few days away from the start of her holiday vacation when she received a text message from the mother of one of her second-grade students.
The parent wondered if Parker knew where she could find food for her children during the school’s two-week winter break because her refrigerator and pantry were almost empty. Her kids relied on free school breakfasts and lunches to get them through the day.
Parker, now a library teacher for 387 students at Lakewood Elementary School in Durham, N.C., said she felt like crying on that phone call six years ago.
“This mom told me she wasn’t worried about herself, but she couldn’t let her kids go without food for those two weeks,” she recalled. “I told my husband about it, and we knew we had to do something.”
Parker and her husband, Donald Parker, a carpenter, immediately went out to shop for groceries for the woman and her family, but then they thought about all the other families.
“If one parent was going into the holiday break with no food in the house, we knew there must be others,” said Turquoise Parker, 34.
Although the Durham Public Schools district regularly worked with a nonprofit to provide food-insecure families with weekend groceries, the program couldn’t serve every child, she said.
On Dec. 14, 2015, Parker decided to text everyone she knew asking for donations to buy enough holiday groceries for all 22 students in her class at the time.
“I’m trying to send each of my 22 students home with a bag of non-perishables to help their families with them being out for Christmas break,” she wrote. “If you know anyone wanting to donate, let me know! I’ll go pick it up!”
Within a couple of days, she had $500.
“It really took off and made such an impact for these families that I knew I had to keep going,” Parker said. “Food is something that no one can do without. It’s not only a basic human need, it’s a human right.”
The second year, she said she raised $1,000 and the program grew from there. Last year, more than $55,000 came in.
This year, from Dec. 8 to 11, Parker and a group of 70 volunteers once again bagged groceries to send home with students at the beginning of their winter break.
This time, $106,000 was raised through fundraisers, a charitable foundation and social media. It was enough to help every child at 12 elementary schools in her school district, said Parker, noting that about half of the district’s students qualify for free or low-cost school lunches.
About 5,200 students took home bags filled with a two-week supply of cereal, bread, peanut butter, pasta, granola bars, oatmeal, beans, mac ‘n’ cheese, canned chicken, fruit and vegetables, she said. The groceries were ordered online this year at Costco and delivered to the gym at Lakewood Elementary.
Parker said she named the project “Mrs. Parker’s Professors’ Foodraiser,” because she considers all of her students to be “little professors.”
“I’m a part of their family now and they’re a part of mine,” she said. “We’re all learning together. They help me as much as I help them…”
Parker is relieved that the program now helps thousands more students, and it runs with the dedication of many volunteers.
During her first year of raising funds to feed about two dozen students, she heard from Durham attorney T. Greg Doucette, who asked how he could help. Doucette now pitches in to help coordinate the project every year, she said.
“This has become a community effort — not mine alone — and that’s how it should be,” Parker said.
Doucette said that when he first signed on to help, he didn’t anticipate that bagging groceries would become a recurring project. But when he learned about food insecurity in his community, he wanted to do something to lessen the need, he said….
Her mother, Marian Thompson, was a single mom with three children who got a doctoral degree in education and worked for 43 years as a teacher and school counselor, she said.
“Oh, my gosh, did she ever inspire me,” said Parker, noting that she often accompanied her mother to work as a preschooler.
“I saw everything she did for kids at school, and from age 4, I also wanted to become a schoolteacher,” she said. “At home, I’d line up all of my teddy bears and baby dolls and teach them.”
After she graduated from North Carolina Central University in 2010 with a degree in public administration, she took her first teaching job at Estes Hills Elementary School. Since 2019, she’s been the library teacher at Lakewood Elementary, although she prefers to call herself a social justice teacher, she said.
“Food inequality is systemic and that’s not okay,” Parker said. “Giving children food for their Christmas break is not a lavish thing — this is food we’re talking about. The well-being of our community is directly related to the well-being of our children. We have to fight for each other.”
It’s a lesson she has thought about often since giving birth to her first child, Madame, four months ago, she said.
I wonder how many profit-driven publicly funded private sector charter schools have teachers that do this, and how many of those charter schools have children that live in poverty and are also food-deprived.
I don’t know the answers to those questions. But I can tell you other things as important. I raised four adults, (no intelligent parent raises children), in low income housing, and I currently live in a town with a large hard working low income population. So what i DO know is that many low income families have come to believe that Charter Schools are not just their children’s best hope, but that charter schools are their children’s ONLY HOPE of a decent education. There are two charter schools within 3 miles of me, they have waiting lists as most do. One of the reasons they present for student success is smaller class sizes, which allows more 1-1 student to teacher interaction, THAT ALONE makes a HUGE difference; we all know this for fact. Yet public schools save $ not by trimming fat at the top, District Administrators, but by firing teachers. Public Education is being mismanaged at so many levels it makes your head spin.
If you are poor and your child is not being served well in the public school…. well, can you understand how much it appeals to a parent wanting only to help their child learn and achieve more in the world than they did? Or what if your child has special needs and your local public school hasn’t a class for your child, refuses to work an IEP with your child, or is verbally/mentally abusive to your child. Do you see yourself having a choice? My granddaughter is in a charter school after a horrific teacher and year in public school.
BEFORE we can eliminate charter schools and vouchers, WE MUST PROVE TO LOW INCOME FAMILIES THAT WE BELIEVE IN PUBLIC EDUCATION BY FULLY FUNDING IT, Federally.
There are states that are failing their children, and/or CHOOSING to fail BIPOC CHILDREN, why should we allow them ‘State’s Rights’ to continue doing so? Their Failures Affect Our Entire Nation, especially when they send them to Congress, not to mention the White House of 2016-2020.
Why don’t we take their tax dollars when they have proven incapable of managing the money wisely, and do it for them until they are ready to handle it well.
Wouldn’t it be wonderful if all the republicons voted for a government who made certain that the economy worked for HARD WORKING AMERICANS instead of just the rich, corporate, and political monsters. They could make an economy where ALL Americans received paychecks that supported their families, paid for HOUSING, FOOD, Utilities, HEALTHCARE, CHILDCARE, Transportation…
There is actually a LOT OF MONEY in America, money that could Fix Our Economy, the problem lies in CIRCULATION. republicon voters have been told that their taxes are necessary to feed the rich and corporate so as to build new businesses and jobs which will in turn pay them enough to live on. You may have heard of this economic plan before, it’s called ‘trickle down’. I’m 61 so I remember it well, I fell for this hook, line, & sinker. Yeah, it sunk us all right. All that trickled down was something I wished they’d left in their septic tanks.
Vote for an economy that CIRCULATES the wealth.
Because you’ve heard 2% of Americans HAVE MORE MONEY THAN ALL OF THE 98%, which is true.
But did you know that 1% of Americans HAVE MORE MONEY THAN ALL OF THE 99%? Stop and think about that for a minute. Are you getting it?
Now you should understand why all these children are GOING HUNGRY. It’s not just in one classroom, or one school. It’s in classrooms and schools and homes in every state, city, town, and neighborhood where the rich don’t reside, all over America. MANY MILLIONS OF CHILDREN ARE GOING HUNGRY, HOMELESS, and SICK so the rich, corporate, and political can live well at their expense.
Will you vote for an economy that makes it possible for ALL FAMILIES TO FEED THEIR CHILDREN THEMSELVES? Or will you vote to put more money in the offshore banks of the rich, corporate and political?
I want to take this opportunity to point out that North Carolina has teacher librarians instead of teachers and also librarians. One can be a “media specialist” in charge of test prep tech in a library, or be a librarian with the responsibility to also teach a full load of classes, something of an impossibility. Cheap, NC, very cheap. Every public school should have a full time librarian in charge of books, not Khan Academy.
Thank you leftcoastteacher for sharing this information with us! North Carolina is not looking like a State that cares much for its Children just now.
The richest country in the history of the earth has teachers making near poverty wages themselves organizing to feed children who would otherwise go hungry during the holidays and this is supposed to be a feel good story. Good for this teacher, but a plague on this country.
Exactly. Unfortunately not enough people will understand as we do. Or worse, those who do still won’t get up off of their lazy apathetic a****s and vote for change. 😖🤬